ok..so whats wrong with takeing your time and meeting new folks and seeing what happens..why is every one in such a rush for comitment ..shouldn't ya get to know some one before you start talking about the future with them..i mean geesh..1 date and they think your ready setle down.. what happened to takeing your time to be sure if it is right ?..
each answer will be different i gues,,,,for me,,,i tend to make a deep connection fast, very fast, its just the way I am. I also suppose it depends on what your definition of "dating" is
ok..hmm..well thats kind of the idea..start as friends and see if more comes from it..or if not ya still got a good friend.. and i agree sleeping around is nasty.. and dangerous..
where I live...pretty rural so i already know most ppl in town to one degrea or another and just as many in surrounding towns....so i guess alot of the getting to know you part is done before i even get off the ground...im not saying rush...i dunno...im wierd
no ..not weird..just your self.. wich is good.. we all have our ideas of how things should work i guess..but i am getting sick of meeting and going out with some one..and then them saying we should only see each other..and i still really don't know them very well.. or ya meet and they want to go some where private right away..what ever not doing that with a stranger for sure..
Well I am shy and dating is scary. I am also sensitive so rejection is hurtful. I am lazy so romance is a lot of work. I have had trouble being ignorant so learning has been difficult. I used to not share so communication was difficult. I have been sarcastic so honesty was not always easy. I like my freedom so committment is scary. I like having a lot of friends so trust has been a real big problem. I have a lot of issues to deal with yet but one these days I would like to try dating. Every time in the past my spouses and me just jumped into things and I never dated when I was younger. I don't think there is anything wrong with dating, though.
No need to be in a hurry Kristi,your right,to many are in a hurry.
Get to know someone,"date",have fun,enjoy each others company,share in the life they live,and them in yours.Knowing somone means sharing time in each others space.
Loving someone doesn't mean living together,when opportunity comes knocking at your door,you'll know,and thats when commitment will be made.
Life is too short not to be all you can be and see all you can see.
so true cheri seems you and me are kindred souls on so many things.. i miss the time we have shared together..and hope soon we can do it all again..maybe get you here in my neck of the woods..lol..any ways..loves ya girl.. ;-)
ok girl..well sense ya already gave me a demo on haveing fun..i guess you don't have to spell it out.. but don't think my house is big enough to hold every one from the clubs...lmao ;-)
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what happened to takeing your time to be sure if it is right ?..