whats wrong with just dateing ? ( Archived) (32)

Dec 8, 2005 6:46 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
flthrottle
flthrottleflthrottleindependence, Kentucky USA22 Threads 532 Posts
ok..so whats wrong with takeing your time and meeting new folks and seeing what happens..why is every one in such a rush for comitment ..shouldn't ya get to know some one before you start talking about the future with them..i mean geesh..1 date and they think your ready setle down..
what happened to takeing your time to be sure if it is right ?..
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Dec 8, 2005 7:40 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
xfahctor
xfahctorxfahctorlancaster, New Hampshire USA44 Threads 1,643 Posts
each answer will be different i gues,,,,for me,,,i tend to make a deep connection fast, very fast, its just the way I am. I also suppose it depends on what your definition of "dating" is
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Dec 8, 2005 7:46 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
flthrottle
flthrottleflthrottleindependence, Kentucky USA22 Threads 532 Posts
meeting ..going out..or staying in but mainly getting to know some one..no..i don't mean sleeping around..just getting to know them..

i guess some can feal instant conection..but if it's a true connection it still wont hurt to take your time and be sure..right ?
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Dec 8, 2005 7:49 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
Illuminate
IlluminateIlluminateKathleen, Georgia USA21 Threads 1,878 Posts
As much as I hate to admit it, I'll have to give Throttle her props on this one.

Yes slow down and smell them roses and enjoy the scenery on the way.
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Dec 8, 2005 7:51 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
asingledad
asingledadasingledadBeaufort, South Carolina USA20 Threads 390 Posts
Are you sayin, get to know there lastname before marrying them ???....lol
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Dec 8, 2005 8:00 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
flthrottle
flthrottleflthrottleindependence, Kentucky USA22 Threads 532 Posts
ok..hmm..well thats kind of the idea..start as friends and see if more comes from it..or if not ya still got a good friend.. and i agree sleeping around is nasty.. and dangerous..
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Dec 8, 2005 8:04 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
winds
windswindsfairborn, Ohio USA6 Threads 242 Posts
i see what your saying tho ....its hard if not bout impossible to be true friends and sleep together it will affect the frindship in time.........
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Dec 8, 2005 8:04 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
xfahctor
xfahctorxfahctorlancaster, New Hampshire USA44 Threads 1,643 Posts
where I live...pretty rural so i already know most ppl in town to one degrea or another and just as many in surrounding towns....so i guess alot of the getting to know you part is done before i even get off the ground...im not saying rush...i dunno...im wierd
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Dec 8, 2005 8:19 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
flthrottle
flthrottleflthrottleindependence, Kentucky USA22 Threads 532 Posts
no ..not weird..just your self.. wich is good..
we all have our ideas of how things should work i guess..but i am getting sick of meeting and going out with some one..and then them saying we should only see each other..and i still really don't know them very well..
or ya meet and they want to go some where private right away..what ever
not doing that with a stranger for sure..
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Dec 9, 2005 2:46 AM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Well I am shy and dating is scary. I am also sensitive so rejection is hurtful. I am lazy so romance is a lot of work. I have had trouble being ignorant so learning has been difficult. I used to not share so communication was difficult. I have been sarcastic so honesty was not always easy. I like my freedom so committment is scary. I like having a lot of friends so trust has been a real big problem. I have a lot of issues to deal with yet but one these days I would like to try dating. Every time in the past my spouses and me just jumped into things and I never dated when I was younger. I don't think there is anything wrong with dating, though.
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Dec 9, 2005 3:43 AM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
No need to be in a hurry Kristi,your right,to many are in a hurry.

Get to know someone,"date",have fun,enjoy each others company,share in the life they live,and them in yours.Knowing somone means sharing time in each others space.

Loving someone doesn't mean living together,when opportunity comes knocking at your door,you'll know,and thats when commitment will be made.

Life is too short not to be all you can be and see all you can see.
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Dec 9, 2005 11:47 AM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
flthrottle
flthrottleflthrottleindependence, Kentucky USA22 Threads 532 Posts
so true cheri seems you and me are kindred souls on so many things.. i miss the time we have shared together..and hope soon we can do it all again..maybe get you here in my neck of the woods..lol..any ways..loves ya girl.. ;-)
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Dec 9, 2005 4:46 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
KY can use a little Canadian in it,I be coming soon...........LMAO


Pait store here she comes...................LMAO


Love right back at ya girly.
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Dec 10, 2005 8:24 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
flthrottle
flthrottleflthrottleindependence, Kentucky USA22 Threads 532 Posts
i can't wait..goodness ky can't handle me..but the 2 of us..omg..lol ;-)

just remember our cops carry guns ...lol
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Dec 10, 2005 9:17 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
yeah and sometimes them ky cops come to your house drunk so watch out they might miss and kill your dog or one of your neighbors
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Dec 11, 2005 2:53 AM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
could use a good pistol whipping Kristi...........LMAO
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Dec 24, 2005 8:34 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
flthrottle
flthrottleflthrottleindependence, Kentucky USA22 Threads 532 Posts
how did i miss this..lol..love the new pic girl..
pistol whipping is not the kind of whipping i like..lol

and roy..thats actually true..except the cop who shot my pregnant friends dog...wasn't drunk..just an idiote..
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Dec 26, 2005 6:09 PM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
do I have to spell everything out to ya wee one,come on now...lol



and like NIKE says,just do it,date,and have fun,real simple
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Dec 29, 2005 12:54 AM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
flthrottle
flthrottleflthrottleindependence, Kentucky USA22 Threads 532 Posts
ok girl..well sense ya already gave me a demo on haveing fun..i guess you don't have to spell it out.. but don't think my house is big enough to hold every one from the clubs...lmao ;-)
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Dec 29, 2005 4:38 AM CST whats wrong with just dateing ?
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
no,thats why you go to there house.......lol
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