I dated a woman much younger than me for awhile. I know people often say that age doesn't matter, but it does have an effect on a relationship. Without shared experiences and knowledge you gain from just being alive for a longer time, it's hard to make a great connection. I know it can happen, but I'd be wary. Just my very humble opinion.
Why you you ask how if their is an attraction theasking of this question confuses me what is it you are having a problem sharing???? honesty? passion? conversation? dinner? a dwelling/house? please define the "something"
very peculiar that as an adult yo are unable to share a honest open conversation.... and the question needs to be ask why is this a dilemma if the desire to share lives not within you pertaining to him. why is it nessasary to learn how to share with him...... this is a still a confusing issue to me.
The age difference could be very significant in Turkey. Turkey has undergone some huge cultural changes in the past 50 years. The older generation still holds on a bit to the idea that the man rules and the wife will follow, but the younger generation in general has more western thoughts about the relationship between a man and a woman. I lived in Turkey for over two years and saw first hand the big differences. It isn't an insignificant thing.
ashanti, only you know this man well enough to know if you are compatible. We can all give our opinions, but since we don't know you or the man, we can not give good advice.
nelson ..thanks for nice answer.as you lived in turkey,you have experienced how things go..but the fact is not living in turkey..world is changing and turkey should follow this .. my question does not mean that i have relationship with an old man,i always receive emails or messages from this age group in some dating sites also in my local area and they are asking me to be friend,starting as a friendly is not a problem but i can imagine the further..while saying that sharing something,this can be an idea,this can be something physical,anything ..i can not do this may be i am scared i do not know..this makes me stress..
hope this is clear , i have better explanations in my language my english is not so good..sorry
If it's a problem for you then simply don't date older men. As attractive as you appear to be you shouldn't have any trouble finding nice young men closer to your age. Why look for trouble?
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