I am so in love but is he? ( Archived) (30)

Jun 1, 2007 11:01 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
walkawhilewithme
walkawhilewithmewalkawhilewithmetampa, Florida USA1 Threads 1 Posts
what do u do if you care so deeply for someone & are not sure if they feel the same. I think they might but what do i do about this turmoil i feel? he makes me so happy and i think i make him happy.
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Jun 1, 2007 11:04 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
Ojazos
OjazosOjazosCancun, Quintana Roo Mexico98 Threads 2,894 Posts
confused dunno sigh i dont know...i had the experience that they swer endless love, and they are saying the same to 2 or 3 more girls......so.....i can not help you.....sorry.crying
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Jun 1, 2007 11:22 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
sweetykat
sweetykatsweetykatLakeland, Florida USA30 Threads 1,635 Posts
maybe you should talk to him about how he feels. and go from there, professor
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Jun 1, 2007 11:26 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
Blugan
BluganBluganwest palm beach, Florida USA10 Threads 81 Posts
Bingo

Good call Kat
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Jun 1, 2007 11:28 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
sweetykat
sweetykatsweetykatLakeland, Florida USA30 Threads 1,635 Posts
thanks blu lol glad to see i am not the only night owlangel
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Jun 1, 2007 11:30 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
Time will tell let him come to you ....Don't add presure guys hate that ....

Good Luck!thumbs up
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Jun 1, 2007 11:31 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
loves2steppin
loves2steppinloves2steppinConcord, New Hampshire USA20 Threads 1,729 Posts
Night owl here also.....communication is so important in a relationship...go ahead and ask him flat out -walk........
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Jun 1, 2007 11:36 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
sweetykat
sweetykatsweetykatLakeland, Florida USA30 Threads 1,635 Posts
I agree that communication is most important, you can talk without pressuring,
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Jun 1, 2007 11:46 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
I agree with Kat and 2step. Tiptoeing around and being scared to say how you feel is no way to have a relationship. If it scares him off, consider yourself lucky to find out now. It sucks to spend years with someone that you can't express your feelings to.

Whoo-hooo, another night owl here! grin
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Jun 1, 2007 11:46 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
Blugan
BluganBluganwest palm beach, Florida USA10 Threads 81 Posts
True Aries

Some do especially taking relationships to the next level.

and i agree relationships take time, patience and lots of forgiveness

But Its nice to know where you stand with an individual than not knowing.
Its good to get things out in the open rather then thinking or assuming something only to have it escaltate in the wrong direction.
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Jun 1, 2007 11:50 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
Really we need more info ...

1. How long have they been dating
2. Is it a open relationship
3. How far do they live from each other

Most guys will give you a sign it may not be a "I love you" it maybe "I really like you" .....read between the lines..
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Jun 1, 2007 11:56 PM CST I am so in love but is he?
sweetykat
sweetykatsweetykatLakeland, Florida USA30 Threads 1,635 Posts
I think everyone has a good point here, and truely it would depend on the individual relationship. and if you don't wanna talk to him yet notice the things he does, alot of men say how they feel thorugh thier gestures, when they say the little things are whats important they could be more right,

Example:
does he put the toilet seat down?
does he ask you if you want anything when he goes to the frige (ok thats not always a good example)

does he open doors?

ak any men have any examples?

my point is a lot of times actions speak louder than words
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Jun 2, 2007 12:13 AM CST I am so in love but is he?
Blugan
BluganBluganwest palm beach, Florida USA10 Threads 81 Posts
lol all of the above is true

How ever sometimes i miss subtle hints and a woman has to break out the flashlights with the orange wands on the ends and guide me like an airplane thumbs up
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Jun 2, 2007 12:33 AM CST I am so in love but is he?
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
No way!! Never would have thought........... rolling on the floor laughing Hee hee...!!
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Jun 2, 2007 12:45 AM CST I am so in love but is he?
Blugan
BluganBluganwest palm beach, Florida USA10 Threads 81 Posts
Though in life Im a keen observer of fine detail on most things
i didnt get my Masters of the obvious in dating. . . .Comunication is key!
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Jun 2, 2007 3:10 AM CST I am so in love but is he?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Sorry, "Walkawhilewithme"I can't really help you, I seem to have similar experiences as the lady who posted this post that I've attached to my reply. Trouble is they are usually saying the same to about 25 other women and not just 2 or 3 roll eyes roll eyes laugh
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Jun 2, 2007 5:29 AM CST I am so in love but is he?
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Get him to open up about his feelings and go from there.
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Jun 2, 2007 5:34 AM CST I am so in love but is he?
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
just lighten up and enjoy each moment - mooments are all we have kiss
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Jun 2, 2007 9:49 AM CST I am so in love but is he?
HuskyRomantic
HuskyRomanticHuskyRomanticSalt Lake City, Utah USA36 Threads 367 Posts
Everyone has offered an excellent point to reflect on. The best thing to do is observe if the guy is "holding back for something better," or, "holding back because he's afraid." I often do the latter as I've been burned and have trust issues. If it's the first then you should find someone more deserving of what you have to offer. Best wishes to you future. hug
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Jun 2, 2007 10:39 AM CST I am so in love but is he?
wordsmith53
wordsmith53wordsmith53Somewhere in . . ., Kentucky USA1 Threads 103 Posts
Tell him they're having a sale at Macy's and you need to borrow his credit card . . . that really separates the men from the boys.yay
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