What Can I Do? ( Archived) (23)

hmmmmmmm

that's different about the gal!.....

tell him to show interest in another girl....if you "allow" him.

and you're right....he shouldn't be making babies at his age....but he should be made very aware of all the diseases and contraception out there....

maybe sit down with him again....and i did mention a curfew for him...

its good to talk.

i think you should do this and see what he thinks about this girl...

and its not being overprotective to want to know where your son is and who he hangs out with...but the dating thing till 16, that ain't gonna happen!....

you're a good mum....i can see this...if it were your daughter and the tables were changed....then i would be more cautious....

maybe its just me!...

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Mother do you think they will drop the bomb?

Hush now baby don't you cry momma won't let anyone dirty get through she will put all her fears into you and make all your nightmares come true..

They are kids teenagers and controlling their instincts is going to cause some hardship on you.

The only advice i can offer any raising children is talk to them about every thing start when very young be honest with them .

We seem to fear most for the people we love.

Yes we do...and I'm very protective of my friends and loved ones. I was raised to be a good person and would give the shirt off my back to someone that needed it worse than I do. I was also taught that love is something to be cherished and protected.

I will fight and protect any one whom i think is vunerable. I just can help it i hate to see any one hurting

I know, me too. I'm always standing up for the "underdog" and I think it hurts me the most when I can't make things better for them and for those I love. I'm a protector by nature and will stand up for those that can't or won't stand up for themselves.

Good idea...maybe I will talk to his best buddy and see if there is a good girl out there for him. I'm just worrying myself sick over this because I don't want him to ruin his future.

Currently I am raising 3 teenagers. Two boys and one girl. I would talk to your son ans see how he feels. If he is interested in her then give her a chance. I dont let my children run the streets or make decisions on their own. They are too young to be parents etc.etc.; however, I know if you set the boundries on a no your to young attitude he will resent that and when a situation arrises for him to rebell he will. I would show him his feelings matter but set boundries and explain to him why the boundries are in play. He will respect you more, by seeing that you respect him. Trust that you have raised him right and make sure he knows about protection. Even though we dont want things to happen, if its what they want they will make sure it happens. If we as parents close the door to communication by setting too strict of guidelines without showing we care about what our kids want, they will rebell more in a negative way just to spite you. It isnt easy................. my three sure push the limits at times.
Good luck.

lol

in fact he will only really follow what his mates say - so if they dont like here - neither will he