how do u know when u are in love but not computer love. (26)
Czech31moorhead, Minnesota USA12 Threads 81 PostsHow can u tell the different? If the person is saying love u , is that for real? Or saying that on the computer is not real by giving a false impression. Can any one answer this questions? oh , by the way , i will be putting my photo on profile soon.
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It is definitely computer love if they say it in the first email they send you or they wrote you poetry they wrote especially for you which turns out to be the lyrics to an NSync song.
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that is true if they say that in the first time only but what about couple of times?
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I don't think you can really love anyone until you have at least met them, otherwise it isn't real. You are just in love with who you think they are. No one is exactly the same in person as they are on the computer. Me, I'm much better in person. lol.
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I don't think you can really love anyone until you have at least met them, otherwise it isn't real. You are just in love with who you think they are. No one is exactly the same in person as they are on the computer. Me, I'm much better in person. lol.
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I guess if they are saying they love you, it is at least real to them. I guess everyone is different, I would never use the L word anywhere unless I mean't it. What would be the point.
But hey what the heck do I know.......lol
But hey what the heck do I know.......lol
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i dont want to give out the false impression or confusing by saying i love u on the computer and i rather want to meet them in person and knowing them better for real. How that ?
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well saying i love you means something different to each person. it could be as friends. or they love talking to you. they love somethings about you. and online it is so hard to tell what love is to them and what kind of love they are talking about.
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I've told my "girl friends" and "male friends" I love them over the net. I have never declared my love for anyone as of yet though. When I talk to a certain someone I feel the tingle, BUT I have met him in real life.
K, it's not a tingle, my heart starts beating really really fast, and I get all giddy..LOL I have also told him how I feel too. So he knows "it's" there.
If I talk to my friends on the game site I go on, I have told the girls and some of the guys..I Love Ya, but that's only when leaving. I'm not "in love" with them.
K, it's not a tingle, my heart starts beating really really fast, and I get all giddy..LOL I have also told him how I feel too. So he knows "it's" there.
If I talk to my friends on the game site I go on, I have told the girls and some of the guys..I Love Ya, but that's only when leaving. I'm not "in love" with them.
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i agree with wwry13
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and i agree with txangel
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It's computer love... I often say "Love", "Love ya" or "Lots of Love" at the end of emails, etc. Just something nice to say. It's not impossible I guess to fall in love with someone online after a very, very long constantly corresponding relationship... but if you look at it realistically... eventually you are going to have to meet in person. And BE together in person to really experience love fully.
Love, :)
Ann
Love, :)
Ann
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ok............if anyone tells you that they love you over the computer..............THEY are INSANE!!!!
the end
no need to thank me,its been my pleasure
the end
no need to thank me,its been my pleasure
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i m going to answer your input, i have seen one couple that met online and decide they want to meet to see if they click in person , and they did. they end up getting married after being online on the computer. So , do you think they are INSANE to you?
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i think what he was trying to say is that you cant fall in love over the computer- that the concept of saying you love someone- just from chatting is insane.
you do actually have to meet someone to fall in love.
i also think that you can't love someone from just emails-chat- you do actually have to have a physical attraction to love someone fully and to get that- you have to meet.
you do actually have to meet someone to fall in love.
i also think that you can't love someone from just emails-chat- you do actually have to have a physical attraction to love someone fully and to get that- you have to meet.
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okay , okay , i totally agree with you all about this.. I will never make mistake again . lol.
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I disagree. You could "grow" in love. You just won't know how you interract with them. It takes awhile, and both people need to be truthful.
I am ME-no matter WHERE I go, or WHO I am with...
You are better in person, because you must have a caring heart. It is because you can express this better in person, but a man could "grow" in love like that, after awhile(months). It just depends also, how often u both email/IM/phone calls.
I am ME-no matter WHERE I go, or WHO I am with...
You are better in person, because you must have a caring heart. It is because you can express this better in person, but a man could "grow" in love like that, after awhile(months). It just depends also, how often u both email/IM/phone calls.
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You can "love" many traits and characteristics via email.
But you gotta touch flesh for big love.
Final note..........THE WORD "LOVE" IS OVERANALYZED!!!!!!
STOP IT!
But you gotta touch flesh for big love.
Final note..........THE WORD "LOVE" IS OVERANALYZED!!!!!!
STOP IT!
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you gotta promise ya won't slap me then!!!
i'm comin over to grab that TOUCH!
i love you !
:o)
alex
i'm comin over to grab that TOUCH!
i love you !
:o)
alex
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