Moving On (5)

Jul 16, 2007 12:31 AM CST Moving On
MaximusStryker
MaximusStrykerMaximusStrykerBoiling Springs, South Carolina USA1 Threads 2 Posts
Do you think a person can come back from so much heart ache? I mean even if that person has suffered so much in his life, does it seem possible to be happy with someone ever again?confused
Jul 16, 2007 7:46 AM CST Moving On
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
From personal experience, yes it is possible. The emotional pain is such that you feel like you are loosing your mind, like you are suffocating. Do what needs to be done to replace that feeling with something else. Sometimes the things we replace it with can be stupid, but if we manage to come away unscathed, Life does go on.

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Jul 16, 2007 1:28 PM CST Moving On
MaximusStryker
MaximusStrykerMaximusStrykerBoiling Springs, South Carolina USA1 Threads 2 Posts
I didn't feel any of this...I felt cold and lonely, my life was torn from me, painfully I might add. Unless you've lost a love one, I don't think anybody can feel the way I feel all the time...
Jul 16, 2007 10:05 PM CST Moving On
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
Loosing a loved one, having them taken away without warning is indeed another kind of pain. I was lucky enough to spend time with a person this past December and unfortunately he passed away in March. There was a lot of crying, not wanting to be out in the world and disbelief. I still have to go over in my mind that I will not be talking with him again or sharing email or being asked to review his notes for a class he would be teaching. I don't think I'm the same person after loosing him. I'm not crying, I'm back to my routines but it's not the same and I don't think it will ever be.
Jul 17, 2007 7:07 PM CST Moving On
marie2
marie2marie2walterboro, USA25 Threads 693 Posts
sigh Time heals all wounds--but it is up to you-you can mope about but when it comes down to it, you control your own happiness and it will come one day, just don't give up. My ex-husband of 19 yrs passed away last summer-we were divorced for 10 months prior-it didn't hit me hard until a year later
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