when will you get married ? ( Archived) (42)

Jul 17, 2007 7:41 AM CST when will you get married ?
alpenrose
alpenrosealpenroseJakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 3 Posts
Why everyone around me so worried about my marriage when I'm not even put it on my top priority list ???????????????????
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Jul 17, 2007 7:42 AM CST when will you get married ?
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
Well Your still young i wanna start to settle down around 25, so i can start the search for potential husbands...
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Jul 17, 2007 7:46 AM CST when will you get married ?
alpenrose
alpenrosealpenroseJakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 3 Posts
I'm still 27 !!!!!!!!!!!
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Jul 17, 2007 7:48 AM CST when will you get married ?
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
Yeah, You still have time to find a good man and have kids someday so theres no hurry. If theres still things you wanna do first go for it....
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Jul 17, 2007 8:35 AM CST when will you get married ?
marie2
marie2marie2walterboro, USA25 Threads 693 Posts
roll eyes He would have to be an awfully wonderful man-been there-done that-don't want to do it again anytime soon!

19 years was my marriage-I was 24 when I married

I feel like most of my life was wasted

I am 45 feeling 28 now

How great is thatcheering
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Jul 17, 2007 8:50 AM CST when will you get married ?
johnmarkus
johnmarkusjohnmarkustoronto, Canada34 Threads 1,384 Posts
I will marry when I fall in love with a woman.canada
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Jul 17, 2007 8:53 AM CST when will you get married ?
johnmarkus
johnmarkusjohnmarkustoronto, Canada34 Threads 1,384 Posts
I was 17 years old when I met my partner of 20 years and when we first broke up I felt that I wasted my life to.
However I grew through that relationship to know what I desire am looking for need.
It wasn't a waste of time it was a grown awakening that I needed to receive.
canada
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Jul 17, 2007 9:19 AM CST when will you get married ?
dreamer_too
dreamer_toodreamer_tooTransplanted to, North Carolina USA4 Threads 208 Posts
OMG, people still expect that you would do that? I did that when I was 20 and ended in divorce by the age of 24. I swore I would never remarry before the age of 35 but found myself married shortly after turning 30. About the time we found ourselves in a position of just growing old together, it ended in death. It was good but we worked at it. Oh well, I'm not adverse to the idea, as the experience just keeps getting better. When will that happen? I have no idea. I just haven't found the right person to experience it with.

Life is too short. Don't sweat the small stuff and it's all small.
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Jul 17, 2007 9:21 AM CST when will you get married ?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
If things keep going the way they have been, maybe in my next lifetime!laugh
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Jul 17, 2007 9:55 AM CST when will you get married ?
dreamer_too
dreamer_toodreamer_tooTransplanted to, North Carolina USA4 Threads 208 Posts
I have a few very close male friends. I love 'em but I'm not "in love" with 'em. If I'm having a bad day and feeling sorry for myself, I can count on one of them calling me from Texas. It never fails. But there could never be anything more between us. Why spoil that close of a friendship. See, you ruined it when you got married.

Seriously, I'm really surprised it turned out that way. It generally doesn't. 10 years is long enough to have set into a rhythm of life together.
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Jul 17, 2007 10:00 AM CST when will you get married ?
scarlets
scarletsscarletsllanelli, Dyfed, Wales UK6 Threads 1,386 Posts
to be honest with you i dont think there is anybody out there for me. been looking for a while now and hit a brick wall on that question im afraid.moping
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Jul 17, 2007 10:29 AM CST when will you get married ?
joy555
joy555joy555Akron, USA26 Threads 5,464 Posts
oh, come on scarlets, dont give up, she is out therethumbs up
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Jul 17, 2007 10:32 AM CST when will you get married ?
tinymac
tinymactinymachilversum, North Holland Netherlands25 Threads 1,741 Posts
i cant see hw a long relationship that ends is a waste of time

if you produce nice kids, travel a lot, make good fun in and out of bed - then those memories remain even if the person does not!

i think we all have to make th emost of the experiences with other people that we can - its better than regrets and boy, do u have a few lol
professor cheers
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Jul 17, 2007 10:33 AM CST when will you get married ?
tinymac
tinymactinymachilversum, North Holland Netherlands25 Threads 1,741 Posts
sorry - i mean boy, do I have a few regrest!!
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Jul 17, 2007 10:34 AM CST when will you get married ?
J_Stud82
J_Stud82J_Stud82statesville, North Carolina USA3 Threads 27 Posts
I guess when lenababi says yes...so im guessing never!very mad
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Jul 17, 2007 10:38 AM CST when will you get married ?
dreamer_too
dreamer_toodreamer_tooTransplanted to, North Carolina USA4 Threads 208 Posts
When you give up looking, will be about the time you find. Hold onto that thought. You haven't hit a "brick wall" just yet. It will happen when the "time is right".
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Jul 17, 2007 10:44 AM CST when will you get married ?
johnmarkus
johnmarkusjohnmarkustoronto, Canada34 Threads 1,384 Posts
I agree but when I was hurting it seemed like a wasted time--ouch ouch...

canada
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Jul 17, 2007 10:52 AM CST when will you get married ?
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
My marriage lasted 18 months. I've been divorced for 7 years. My parents are pushing me to find a man and get married again. I think it's because out of 4 girls I'm the only one that is still single. Oh well!
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Jul 17, 2007 10:58 AM CST when will you get married ?
tinymac
tinymactinymachilversum, North Holland Netherlands25 Threads 1,741 Posts
yeah - i see what u mean

but now? doesnt it feel better after the pain has subsided a bit?

i bet there are experience between you that you will never forget plus will never want to be the same with another woman

in other words - it was just between you 2!!
handshake cheers
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Jul 17, 2007 1:09 PM CST when will you get married ?
quiescent
quiescentquiescentsomewhere, USA19 Threads 1,199 Posts
When will I get married?

Don't know. When I'm ready, I guess. Very, very happy with
my friendships right now.

Who the hell cares what everyone else wants. It's my life. wave





Ok, get married because 'they' want you to. Good idea.roll eyes
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