Your last X wants to take you to (14)
sorry caps locked ; )
------ This thread is Archived ------
guess that depends on what YOU are comfortable with, to me you have reservations about it or you wouldn't have had to ask or think about it...kinda says it all right there
------ This thread is Archived ------
No. Unless you want to cause him pain...
------ This thread is Archived ------
Yes i go cuz i still love him
------ This thread is Archived ------
If there's no feelings remaining for him, I'd say no. If he is still in "love" with you, no sense in causing him more pain when he'll eventually try to get you back (you know that's more than likely gonna happen).
------ This thread is Archived ------
Let me add that we dated three years. We broke up because He was afraid to get married. I desired marriage. He was loyal, just scared because of divorce. He was divorced before and lost his race car/house/truck/car hauler from the divorce. He was 30, and I'm 41. I understand that he had been through a lot at an early age, and has a 8 yr. old boy. He knew from the beginning what kind of relationship I desired, because of my beliefs.
He's only hangin on because he does not want anyone else to have me, but will not propose(long story)
Even if he did, I do not want to marry him now. I learned a momma's boy is not FOR ME!
He's only hangin on because he does not want anyone else to have me, but will not propose(long story)
Even if he did, I do not want to marry him now. I learned a momma's boy is not FOR ME!
------ This thread is Archived ------
so why would you even consider going after what you just wrote. Think about it, you will only have him in hunger then and is that really fair. I don't know why you would even ask the question if in fact your words are true, that you no longer hold any interest...
------ This thread is Archived ------
I agree with Tumpa. Do the right thing and decline, but be specific as to why. The little bit of pain you cause him is far better than the greater pain of unrequited love stirred up again.
------ This thread is Archived ------
No....don't hang out with someone who wants you but can't have you.
Do the guy a favor. Let him move on.
Do the guy a favor. Let him move on.
------ This thread is Archived ------
I agree with the others here, it sounds like nothing has changed from when you stopped seeing each other. Therefore, one of you would be riding for a fall. Be open with him and talk about it. But I would suggest that you don't go.
------ This thread is Archived ------
ditto
------ This thread is Archived ------
WE talked
WE were honest
WE are ok with friendship
HE still wanted my company
I WENT WE were fine
Thank's I considered all posts, and made my decision.
HE had companionship, and driving and organization financially-
I got to see very good friends I haven't seen in four years. Got a new bikini, and a great tan. MOst of all I had peace/rest.
WE were honest
WE are ok with friendship
HE still wanted my company
I WENT WE were fine
Thank's I considered all posts, and made my decision.
HE had companionship, and driving and organization financially-
I got to see very good friends I haven't seen in four years. Got a new bikini, and a great tan. MOst of all I had peace/rest.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Interesting situation...you still have feelings for him but you aren't willing to bend...that's your choice...you keep making excuses for why you should go...I think it bothers you that no one thinks that you should go so you continue to make excuses for why you should...stop leading him on...
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
who shaped your life?
What happened to CS while i was away.. (Long time)
So, . . .
Eid Mubarak
One more reason to vote Democrat....Arizona Supreme Court
makeover
The Real Stormy Story
beauty of the heart
If Our Profiles Were Truly Honest
Trump Elementary
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
1,001 Views
13 Comments
in Advice
Created: Feb 2006
Last Viewed: 5 hrs ago
Last Commented: May 2006
0 Likes
yOU JUST WANT TO GO AS FRIENDS-hE SAYS "IT'S OK"
do YOU GO(KNOWING hE STILL LOVES YOU)