Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work? ( Archived) (78)

Aug 7, 2007 11:52 AM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
Something I would like to know...
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Aug 7, 2007 11:54 AM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
mick681
mick681mick681morecambe, Lancashire, England UK28 Threads 819 Posts
your never there when your needed
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Aug 7, 2007 11:56 AM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
scarlets
scarletsscarletsllanelli, Dyfed, Wales UK6 Threads 1,386 Posts
something to do with different cultures and different ways of living.handshake
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Aug 7, 2007 11:57 AM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Spartan73
Spartan73Spartan73Mersyside, Merseyside, England UK22 Threads 1,206 Posts
True...not being able to be physically near the person would be unbearable for me.
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Aug 7, 2007 11:58 AM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
Then why be in contact with someone or so long,saying how they feel in thier heart your the one yet they cant be bothered to commit..
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Aug 7, 2007 12:00 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
speedy5662
speedy5662speedy5662Tulsa, USA35 Threads 936 Posts
I believe that relationships are 100% successful when you have great communication. When you are are seperated by distance it can make communication difficult, though not impossible. Also I would think that when I want to spend that physical time with the person, I would need for them to present. Long distance relationships can work, though they require more effort than a "normal" relationship. Another key factor would be trust.
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Aug 7, 2007 12:01 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Spartan73
Spartan73Spartan73Mersyside, Merseyside, England UK22 Threads 1,206 Posts
Precisely why I refuse to become embroiled with somebody who lives even more than 100 miles away.wine
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Aug 7, 2007 12:02 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
mick681
mick681mick681morecambe, Lancashire, England UK28 Threads 819 Posts
i might be able to answer that one next month
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Aug 7, 2007 12:03 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Hi ya Gail!!! wave
When you say the "majority"...... do we know this for a fact?? Perhaps there are more successes than we are made aware of??
Just a thought........
(How's Arthur?? Okay??) thumbs up .
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Aug 7, 2007 12:03 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
Short story,saw him off at airport,he said he dont need internet anymore cause he found what he was looking for.me,he is back home in england meeting all sort's fo women though he said he had a wonderful time in canada and I was the one....
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Aug 7, 2007 12:04 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Because people are not prepared to try. I was seeing a guy who lived in london when i lived in bristol, and eventually it just fizzled out. I was prepared to put in the work, but he wasn't.


It hurts being so far from the one you love, but you have to make it work until you, or they, can relocate.
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Aug 7, 2007 12:06 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
Hi Alison,we hear of more unsuccessful stories the successful ones..

Things are not good with Arthur at home right now thank you for asking....
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Aug 7, 2007 12:07 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
dawn777
dawn777dawn777akron, Ohio USA3 Threads 2,702 Posts
Yes Karen, I totally agree....it takes both of you working at it and its hard being apart from your someone special, but no relationship is easy.....you just have stick with it...it'll be worth it in the end.wine
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Aug 7, 2007 12:09 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
Having been hurt and used long distance once guess Iam just being careful now..
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Aug 7, 2007 12:10 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
I am sorry to hear that, love......... mail me if ya need to, eh?? hug kiss
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Aug 7, 2007 12:12 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
dawn777
dawn777dawn777akron, Ohio USA3 Threads 2,702 Posts
I understand and I'm sorry if you've had a bad experience with long distance relationshipscomfort But we have all been hurt in past relationships wether it was long didtance or not, but you can't just give up....keep putting yourself out there, its a risk worth taking...trust me. hug wine
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Aug 7, 2007 12:13 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
Sent you an e-mail...
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Aug 7, 2007 12:14 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Okay!!
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Aug 7, 2007 12:16 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
josephdavid
josephdavidjosephdavidnanaimo, Canada23 Posts
it works some times and sometimes not...depends on distance to...i live in canada...if i found the right girl..say..in london england...hearts would be broken....just my thought
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Aug 7, 2007 12:18 PM CST Why do the majority of long distance relationship's not work?
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
Thank you,I am not giving up,its just more and more difficult with each passing day but as you said,its all worth it in the end...
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