I'm confused or am I imagining things ( Archived) (5)

On another site, a guy initiated communication one day last week. I swear, it was on another "free" site. I had saved all our emails. We chatted both online and by phone daily now. I really want to meet this one. Tonight, I went to go back and reread the email messages, and he is completely gone from there, along with all our emails. It's not a site where they would make a person leave for bad behavior. In fact, he is a rare one and has never demonstrated anything to throw up "red flags". So the only thing I can think is he removed his profile.

My question is why? I have dated others in the past from dating sites and they never removed their profile. Can someone, be gentle, and explain why might be going on. I'm confused!!!

it has happened to me twice with the same guy. hey maybe we are talking to the same person- email me and let me know his name.

that would just be too bizarre, but typical for my life

Sounds to me like he may have had second thoughts at the last minute and the only way to get out of it would be to delete all of his info ... Ya know ! sometimes men cant handle things the way they should be handled so they run from it. He probably has another profile under a different name .. check it out dear!

Well, here on CS, if a member voluntarily removes their profile, their mails will remain, if they are banned, the mails will disappear. But, of course, I know nothing of the rules of the other site. Why not check their rules, that may give a clue??