Budhism says we choose our parents before time....for many reasons...maybe you needed us mother to be the amazing person you are sweetie....
My father is a sob, you have noooooooooooo idea....but here I am and I am sooooooooooooo happy to this persone I've become... ..Couldn't have done it without him, for sure...
I wouldn't change a thing in my life, I may not have had the greatest life but the things I have learned has made it somewhat comfortable. No life will not change unless everyone wants the same.... that is impossible.......To many different personalities
I am with both of you on that one. I think my mother's biggest dissapointment was the day I was born. Never could do anything to please her. Or my father for that matter. My whole life I got nothing but negativity from them.
gillyloves69OPlondon, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
but anyway naula i'll tell you one thimg that i learnt of my father to be fair to the man that kept a roof over my head for about 25 years ! even though i did'nt get on with him even up until the day that he passed away, that i would like to pass on to people !... regarding myself and my older brother that was one year older than myself before i leave these forums and prepare for my studies this year when we were both 11 years old
the words regarding " dad we're both going out to play "
" THE TWO OF YOU LEAVE THIS HOUSE TOGETHER ..AND THE TWO OF YOU COME BACK TO THIS HOUSE TOGETHER "
my brother got the bigest beating of his life for leaving me playing in the local park to come home early... to have this dinner !
and that's why i'm still here today !
eventually him, my mum, my sister,... and my older brother found me in the local park talking to strangers before it was too late !
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
and will life ever change on this planet ?