Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink?? ( Archived) (43)

Sep 4, 2007 2:30 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
I've quit drinking just a few months ago and it's great. I still go out and have fun (that will never change!! For sure!!), but I know I don't have to drink to have fun.

But a couple of times I've had some men who came up to me and asked me if they would like to buy me a drink. I said, "yeah. Can I have a diet coke or a ginger ale?" And after I said that the guy was like, "Well, I'm not wasting my money if you aren't going to drink something!". I said I am drinking something and he walked away. This happened a couple of times.

Why are some men like that? Are there really men out there who likes women who don't drink?? Are there men out there that don't mind buying the lady a non-alcoholic beverage??
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Sep 4, 2007 2:31 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
Roguecop
RoguecopRoguecopElko, Nevada USA218 Threads 3,885 Posts
I hardly drink, so it would make sense that the girl Im with hardly drink as well except socially.
The very reason I do not go out, I do not want to hook up with a drunk
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Sep 4, 2007 2:32 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
I would rather that she didn`t drink. I`m not trying to get some one drunk so I can take advantage anyway. Alcohol can sometimes hekp a person loosen up, but it isn`t necessary.
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Sep 4, 2007 2:34 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
Yep! There's lots of us.
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Sep 4, 2007 2:35 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
I like to have a drink, and sometimes I do have a few too many, but I am always in control. It helps me relax and have a good time! What is wrong with that?
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Sep 4, 2007 2:39 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
agman
agmanagmanEagle, Idaho USA3,145 Posts
I prefer women who dont drink alcoholic beverages. wink
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Sep 4, 2007 2:41 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
I used to think the same thing. "What's wrong with having a drink to relax?"

Eventually, I had to start asking myself a better question. "What's right about it?"

I'm currently learning to deal with stress, and emotions without alcohol. I've been sober now for more than a year and a half.
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Sep 4, 2007 2:42 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
Drinking is fine in moderation..I myself drink maybe once a year but in moderation but can do without.......
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Sep 4, 2007 2:45 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
I never learned to drink in moderation. I have this allergic condition where alcohol makes me break out drunk all over.
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Sep 4, 2007 2:45 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I prefer women who don't drink or drink very little. I drink very little. I really prefer women who don't drink beer!! I have a very firm rule....I drink per night!!professor
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Sep 4, 2007 2:46 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
I like gin and 7-up but prefer bubbly white wine..........
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Sep 4, 2007 2:46 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
Damn...another woman that wants to be in controlrolling on the floor laughing Just kiddingkiss
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Sep 4, 2007 2:47 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
thumbs up wine
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Sep 4, 2007 2:48 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
That`s a good rule, you should never get A DUI. Another rule to live by, no drink is free, if some one is buying you drinks, it`s going to cost you something down the line. Also, never do shots, unless you have a DD. You will go to jail.
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Sep 4, 2007 2:51 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
I don't drink alcohol, but only because I don't like it, some men insist on buying alcohol,'come on, you'll love this' I just leave it. Others don't mind in the least, you are always sober enough to drive home afterwards
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Sep 4, 2007 2:57 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
I envy you! You go girl!!

But I'm different. I used it to relax, have fun, and such, but I didn't when to stop and I would not remember the last 1 hour of the evening. And that happened every time I dranked. And sometimes I would get cut-off and had to go home. So I knew I had to quit. It just wasn't fun anymore.
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Sep 4, 2007 2:59 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
Well, yeah, but I have more fun than I ever had when I was drinking. I don't come home with a bloated stomach anymore, I'm not sick either, and I can remember the entire evening and even the bartenders like me too. So, it's all good for me. This works for me.
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Sep 4, 2007 3:00 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I have a fear..almost a phobia about addictions. My son killed himself last year, one day after completing a year long in residence treatment program. So addictions scare me. I do all things in moderation!!
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Sep 4, 2007 3:01 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
Urhotman
UrhotmanUrhotmanPottstown, Pennsylvania USA29 Threads 792 Posts
"I was drunk!" This is the reason I got from my wife for making out with a guy in front of me, and then leaving with him.conversing confused

Drinking is no excuse...If you can't answer to your action while drinking then you shouldn't drink.

I don't mind a woman that drinks, as long as she can control and REMEMBER her actions...Me myself...I drink once a week on Thursday or Friday...If I am on vacation with a significant other...There hasta' be a nightcap everynight of course.laugh wink
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Sep 4, 2007 3:05 PM CST Are There Really Men Out There Who Likes Women Who Don't Drink??
Urhotman
UrhotmanUrhotmanPottstown, Pennsylvania USA29 Threads 792 Posts
doh A womean that DOESN"t drink...I would by you a soda, and have a good chat...Most men go out to bars to get drunk, and don't forget...It is mans LIQUID courage in a bottle.rolling on the floor laughing
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