I've quit drinking just a few months ago and it's great. I still go out and have fun (that will never change!! For sure!!), but I know I don't have to drink to have fun.
But a couple of times I've had some men who came up to me and asked me if they would like to buy me a drink. I said, "yeah. Can I have a diet coke or a ginger ale?" And after I said that the guy was like, "Well, I'm not wasting my money if you aren't going to drink something!". I said I am drinking something and he walked away. This happened a couple of times.
Why are some men like that? Are there really men out there who likes women who don't drink?? Are there men out there that don't mind buying the lady a non-alcoholic beverage??
I hardly drink, so it would make sense that the girl Im with hardly drink as well except socially. The very reason I do not go out, I do not want to hook up with a drunk
I would rather that she didn`t drink. I`m not trying to get some one drunk so I can take advantage anyway. Alcohol can sometimes hekp a person loosen up, but it isn`t necessary.
I like to have a drink, and sometimes I do have a few too many, but I am always in control. It helps me relax and have a good time! What is wrong with that?
I prefer women who don't drink or drink very little. I drink very little. I really prefer women who don't drink beer!! I have a very firm rule....I drink per night!!
That`s a good rule, you should never get A DUI. Another rule to live by, no drink is free, if some one is buying you drinks, it`s going to cost you something down the line. Also, never do shots, unless you have a DD. You will go to jail.
I don't drink alcohol, but only because I don't like it, some men insist on buying alcohol,'come on, you'll love this' I just leave it. Others don't mind in the least, you are always sober enough to drive home afterwards
But I'm different. I used it to relax, have fun, and such, but I didn't when to stop and I would not remember the last 1 hour of the evening. And that happened every time I dranked. And sometimes I would get cut-off and had to go home. So I knew I had to quit. It just wasn't fun anymore.
Well, yeah, but I have more fun than I ever had when I was drinking. I don't come home with a bloated stomach anymore, I'm not sick either, and I can remember the entire evening and even the bartenders like me too. So, it's all good for me. This works for me.
I have a fear..almost a phobia about addictions. My son killed himself last year, one day after completing a year long in residence treatment program. So addictions scare me. I do all things in moderation!!
"I was drunk!" This is the reason I got from my wife for making out with a guy in front of me, and then leaving with him.
Drinking is no excuse...If you can't answer to your action while drinking then you shouldn't drink.
I don't mind a woman that drinks, as long as she can control and REMEMBER her actions...Me myself...I drink once a week on Thursday or Friday...If I am on vacation with a significant other...There hasta' be a nightcap everynight of course.
A womean that DOESN"t drink...I would by you a soda, and have a good chat...Most men go out to bars to get drunk, and don't forget...It is mans LIQUID courage in a bottle.
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But a couple of times I've had some men who came up to me and asked me if they would like to buy me a drink. I said, "yeah. Can I have a diet coke or a ginger ale?" And after I said that the guy was like, "Well, I'm not wasting my money if you aren't going to drink something!". I said I am drinking something and he walked away. This happened a couple of times.
Why are some men like that? Are there really men out there who likes women who don't drink?? Are there men out there that don't mind buying the lady a non-alcoholic beverage??