When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile... ( Archived) (40)

Sep 11, 2007 10:10 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
brian059
brian059brian059Farmingdale, USA4 Threads 13 Posts
What are the things you first look for?

:)
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Sep 11, 2007 10:15 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
the pic I have to see the eyes they have to catch mine
what he said about himself and what he was looking for
and what he said to me in his emailblushing
yay yay yay yay yay yay yay thats what I was looking for when I found mine
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Sep 11, 2007 10:15 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Nice picture

A profile where they actually say something about themselves

Are they single/divorced/widowed ................. I avoid separated men as I want someone who is free

A sense of humor and personality shown in their words or pictures

A non-smoker because I'm one

no drugs/non-drinker or light drinker because I've lived with someone with addictions and I'm not doing that again

Someone who takes care of their body/health

Someone who is spiritual and is living their faith
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Sep 11, 2007 10:16 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
Angelsojaded
AngelsojadedAngelsojadedColorado Springs, Colorado USA15 Threads 73 Posts
I look at the eyes and then look to see if we connect. I then read the profile.
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Sep 11, 2007 10:21 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
coastalblues
coastalbluescoastalbluestoledo, Oregon USA7 Threads 221 Posts
have to agree with the eyes I also look at the smile if it makes me smileback then I look at height Im 6' so someone short is just not a match to me then of course profile if anything stands out or common interests and I do read the profile
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Sep 11, 2007 10:22 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
First I read the profile,then if it's beleivable and I like what he said I check out basics to see if we match there.I always look at his age and the age woman he's looking for.so many ignore that and write looking for love connection,don't they read?I will write someone out of age range as a possible freind.
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Sep 11, 2007 10:26 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
Uniquemom61
Uniquemom61Uniquemom61Loveland, Ohio USA22 Threads 918 Posts
How much money he makes

If he has a place of his own

If he can spell....

Then, I might look deeper at his picture, if he has one.....

And no children......
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Sep 11, 2007 10:28 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
sassie431
sassie431sassie431southern, California USA45 Threads 500 Posts
When I look at the profile , the first thing I look at is the title. Then I move down to look at the picture, then I look at what he wrote.... If I get passed the first sentence . I will move down to what he wants in a women...
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Sep 11, 2007 10:42 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
brian059
brian059brian059Farmingdale, USA4 Threads 13 Posts
Thanks for the contributiondancing

What do you ladies think of my profile?

I know I'm new to the site... but I've yet to get any feedback, lol.
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Sep 11, 2007 10:49 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
Roguecop
RoguecopRoguecopElko, Nevada USA218 Threads 3,885 Posts
Crap !

Lost me on the spelling
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Sep 11, 2007 10:55 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
nikki9390
nikki9390nikki9390somewhere, Washington USA3 Threads 73 Posts
first i look at the pic to see if it looks 15 years old or recent...lol....THEN i look to see if they even wrote anything about who they are...then i come on the forums and read the stuff they write.
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Sep 11, 2007 11:14 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
Nightingale
NightingaleNightingaleGreen Bay, Wisconsin USA4 Threads 222 Posts
Eyes wow and Smilegrin
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Sep 11, 2007 11:48 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
zRana
zRanazRanaSilver Spring, Maryland USA11 Threads 77 Posts
I try reading their picture first, yes reading...face expression in photo, position, style, clothing etc...If thats sober and gentle, nice, suitable age for me, I feel like falling for her then...

Its her About me Statement, which tells me a lot.

Lastly, Distance from my location...
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Sep 11, 2007 11:54 PM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
BrunetteOkie
BrunetteOkieBrunetteOkieMcCurtain, Oklahoma USA14 Posts
i look first at what the man is looking for. no need going futher if i can tell by what he says he's looking that i don't fit the bill.
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Sep 12, 2007 12:55 AM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
A disconcerting smile always does it for me wow grin
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Sep 12, 2007 12:59 AM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
cswelcome

welcome young one!hug
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Sep 12, 2007 1:03 AM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
ibglenny
ibglennyibglennyNorfolk, Virginia USA10 Threads 245 Posts
It's funny how we women get weird when we hear a guy say that they look at the pic first. But look at us ... LOL ... we do it too.

I must admit that I do look at the pic first and in that I too look at the eyes and the smile ... attraction is important.

Sincerity in his words ... girls notice that guys

A sense of humor

Status ... single, married, divorced etc.

And of course what he is looking for grin
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Sep 12, 2007 1:12 AM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
The truth is out there......laugh we knew it.....yay
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Sep 12, 2007 2:29 AM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Well I personally think its natural to seek someone that you find attractive - because let's face it .... does the thought of kissing this person not enter your mind? So I think its a natural part of our makeup in choosing whether we want to deny it or not. Same goes for men.

How many people do we pass over because we are simply not attracted to them? Far more than those that actually attract us I would hazard to guess.
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Sep 12, 2007 2:43 AM CST When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
Tiffanie
TiffanieTiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 Posts
Eyes and smile
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