definition of FRIENDS (87)

Sep 13, 2007 5:40 PM CST definition of FRIENDS
is it possible for a female to have a male friend ,in the same way as having a female friend?
is it possible for a male to have a female friend,in the same way as having a male friend?
Sep 13, 2007 9:26 PM CST definition of FRIENDS
Jacko21
Jacko21Jacko21St. Pauls Bay, Majjistral Malta179 Threads 2,718 Posts
It is possible, but you and he, or he and she, have to be strong willed not to let friendship go into relationship, not an easy thing to dohandshake
Sep 13, 2007 10:54 PM CST definition of FRIENDS
phaidros
phaidrosphaidrosSt. Julian's, Majjistral Malta44 Posts
I know some of these relationships. The point is always, that the friend is gay. Woman - gay man and vice versa.

My daughter had a friend when we lived in Israel and the biggest sort of fun they had was sittigg at the beach and checking out men togther....

Otherwise it is also possible (own experience) between straight men and women. I have a friend for more than 15 years and we worked and lived togther for some time without ever touching each other.

CU Ph.
"If you can think it - it exists"
Sep 13, 2007 10:56 PM CST definition of FRIENDS
tootiecutie
tootiecutietootiecutiePerth, Western Australia Australia7 Threads 88 Posts
Either proposed situation is entirely possible. My best friend is male. Every best friend Ive ever had has been.
Sep 14, 2007 1:10 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
AwesomeChoice
AwesomeChoiceAwesomeChoiceCarmel, California USA8 Threads 720 Posts
My Best friend is female, but my friends group consist of both, guys and girls...
In agreement with Jacko, got to watch it and keep a safe distance with male friends...when they start hugging you a bit too close wink it's time to ask them, "How is your wife/girlfriend doing? maybe we all can have BBQ next weekend"....just kidding laugh Actually, having male friends is quite beneficiary, especially when it comes to a practical advise on finances, cars, places to go etc. Oh!! and they can help you to move bodies as well roll eyes
Sep 14, 2007 1:24 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
Earthman
EarthmanEarthmanAdelaide, Australia10 Threads 430 Posts
I suppose - the underlying thing should not be given the chance to wear off and should stay underlaying
Sep 14, 2007 1:32 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
AwesomeChoice
AwesomeChoiceAwesomeChoiceCarmel, California USA8 Threads 720 Posts
Wed, you're a Perfect male friend!! I'll take you rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 14, 2007 1:37 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
wedward
wedwardwedwardlinz, Upper Austria Austria680 Threads 7,252 Posts
anytime lady anytimeblushing
Sep 14, 2007 1:38 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
I suppose it's a bit of a spicy herb that should be left there for ego boosting purposes I suppose...

human relationships are a bit tricky aren't they but if they weren't it would be like having a straight road with no bends; just plain boring!

rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 14, 2007 1:40 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
It's possible, but unusual....but when you get it right, it's priceless
But it has a different quality to a same-gender friendships, and there are unusual risks involved...
Sep 14, 2007 1:41 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
and you are right there... a friend is somebody you can call at 3 in the morning to moan about something and they won't hold it agains you even if you woke them up. a true friend is also someone who tells you you look awful in an outfit and a friend is also someone you can sit with and do absolutely nothing, just watch the clouds go by an not a word is said!

viva friends!cheering
Sep 14, 2007 1:42 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
AwesomeChoice
AwesomeChoiceAwesomeChoiceCarmel, California USA8 Threads 720 Posts
thumbs up Absolutely! Any dish needs a bit of spice wave
Sep 14, 2007 1:43 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
I've had some great platonic women friends, but unfortunately there are two risks...firstly it's secretly not platonic, and resentment creeps in from one side, or else more usually, as soon as the lady gets a boyfriend, you get dumped, either because she doesn't have any time anymore, or three's a crowd, or the boyfriend gets jealous....oh vey!! rolling on the floor laughing very mad
Sep 14, 2007 1:44 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
Earthman
EarthmanEarthmanAdelaide, Australia10 Threads 430 Posts
give me the bent tree from the nursery -- everytime
Sep 14, 2007 1:47 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Your dish is spicy enough as it is dear, don't forget...too many cooks spoil the broth....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 14, 2007 1:47 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
AwesomeChoice
AwesomeChoiceAwesomeChoiceCarmel, California USA8 Threads 720 Posts
Like what dunno Define "unusual risks," please

Good morning wave my priceless friend handshake
Sep 14, 2007 1:49 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
I know lots of nursery rymes but not one with a bent tree! please elighten me! remember I'm an alien!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 14, 2007 1:51 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
Earthman
EarthmanEarthmanAdelaide, Australia10 Threads 430 Posts
this time I am not talking in riddles -- a plant nursery ie
Sep 14, 2007 1:52 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Hallo Awesome, read the above note...but beyond that, a buddy is a buddy is a buddy...the best friendships can be forgiving and resilient....I have found platonic friendships to be somewhat more fragile...what's your experience, buddy?
Sep 14, 2007 1:54 AM CST definition of FRIENDS
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I'm a slow poke this morning then! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing good morning!

and to think that I've already had my cup of coffee!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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