I just started relationship about afew weeks now, and realized she is not really who I'm are looking for in a partner. Is it ok to just start leaning toward just a friend kinda relationship and let it fade out on it's own. But if she questions what is going on I'll of course be honest and up front with her.
Or should I go ahead and tell her it's not going to work out? I'm not for sure
chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA1,365 posts
solowolf,
Sweety,what does your heart say? If it was the other way around,how would you want to find out..Honesty..is always best..Good luck.. that's a tuff situation for both partys..but You must do what your heart says..and it must be a good heart or you wouldn't care...chance
You already said"he is not for you" lies aren't going to change that fact what you will be losing is a person who "doesn't do it for you " the risk is easy to take I would think. . .jjohnny!!!
PeachesandCreamConcord, North Carolina USA675 posts
Lonewolf, Jonathan's on the money with this one...treat her heart and feelings with respect....she may hurt, but you may still be able to salvage a friendship out of this once she gets over "getting the wind knocked out of her" of sorts. She may be hurt or angry, but she will respect you more as a man, and not a mouse if you gently let her go. Good Luck, been there and done that, don't want to be walking in your shoes right about now...Take care.
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Or should I go ahead and tell her it's not going to work out? I'm not for sure