Can any of you ladies out there explain this email 2 me please!!!!! ( Archived) (27)

"Do you ever feel like your life is just at a stand still? Like it is going nowhere? Or like you are just setteling for something cause you dont think you can do any better? Well thats how I feel with my life right now. I dont even know if I know what true happiness is anymore. Most of my so called friends arent even true friends anymore. I am stuck at a job that I dont even enjoy going to anymore because of all the bs that goes on there and all the drama."

Boy, I have been there before and felt exactly like this part of her email. Honestly, she is in search of a friend. One whom will just be there for her and listen to her. She needs to make some changes in her life and she is the only one that can do it. (JMO)

this is the first time i ever wrote in one of these but i know this situation all too well... this chick wants to feel wanted by someone, anyone really...and she knows the way she left things unfinished with you, chance are likely you will write/call her telling her the things she wants to hear...giving her the attention she craves...we ALL know how hard it is turning your back(which you really wouldnt be doing by not responding, but thats what it would feel like) on someone you once gave your entire heart too. she wants to hear you say how much better she deserves and on and on...your best bet would be to delete the emails without reading them at all...i might be completely wrong, but thats my take on the whole thing...good luck

I think you have something there hun!!!

Your make a good point. I guess i kind of feel like she's the one I mean we had great times together and it was a unplanned pregnantcy! And i guess i feel she derserves a second chance to make things right but she probally wants me to forgive her which will not be easy for me to do. But from the advice ice has given i might just have to burn this bridge and close out this chapter in my life. I have always turned to wiser pepole for advice and this option i am greatfull to have thanks for all of you Guy's inputs its very appriceated.

I think you have something there hun!!!


i'm probably completely wrong...i tend to over think things

Wait a minute ... let me get this straight.


She kicks you to the curb a year ago ...


She aborts your child without any concern for your feelings ...


She emails you now whining about her dead beat boyfriend and wants you to listen to her problems ...




If you take this girl back, Hon you will be the one with the self esteem issues. You can do SOOO much better this her.

In my experiance, 9 times out of 10 giving a second chance was a mistake. Your best bet is like Ice said, to burn the bridges and sever all ties between the 2 of you.

I have a hard time with the part where she is complaining about not having marraige and a family come true...............didnt she get rid of a child once and when you were willing toi take care of it now she says she wants that she sounds very confused and JMO everyone has enough of that on there own they dont need someone elses confusion

I have to agree with Assets on this one .............. and no where in her email does she say that she even misses you or wants you back or admits that she made a mistake.

I truly don't think that she wants you back - but simply wants to complain and have someone feel sorry for her and the mess that she's made in her life. If I were you, I'd delete the email and pretend I never got it in the first place. She's made her choice and living the consequences now and you need to move on in your own life and find a girl that truly wants you because she's crazy in love with you.