why am i still single ( Archived) (16)

Sep 24, 2007 11:59 PM CST why am i still single
klazzmoo
klazzmooklazzmooalbuquerque, New Mexico USA16 Threads 36 Posts
am i that bad looking or what?
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Sep 25, 2007 12:01 AM CST why am i still single
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA66 Threads 9 Polls 9,743 Posts
The best way to meet people is in the forums, showing your opinions, finding people of like minds. wine
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Sep 25, 2007 12:04 AM CST why am i still single
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA256 Threads 2 Polls 12,797 Posts
If any of us could answer that...we wouldn't be here trying to answer that!!!!!
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Sep 25, 2007 12:05 AM CST why am i still single
Mysticalguy
MysticalguyMysticalguyEvansville, USA55 Threads 1,609 Posts
If I were a woman I'd date you in a second...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 25, 2007 12:07 AM CST why am i still single
cantbetamed71
cantbetamed71cantbetamed71St. Louis, USA92 Threads 1,236 Posts
I'm single because I can't decide which middle eastern marriage proposal to accept..decisions, decisions, decisions..so many options.confused dunno
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Sep 25, 2007 12:15 AM CST why am i still single
dan48225
dan48225dan48225Harper Woods, USA2 Threads 154 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


I'm still waiting for the middle eastern women to start proposing to me! laugh

I did get propositioned by a Russian though! grin
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Sep 25, 2007 12:16 AM CST why am i still single
cantbetamed71
cantbetamed71cantbetamed71St. Louis, USA92 Threads 1,236 Posts
You should feel very priveleged..you know they could be chasing after all the available top of the line men in their own country and yet they came all the way here to find little ole you! LOLrolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 25, 2007 12:18 AM CST why am i still single
pebblesmom01
pebblesmom01pebblesmom01stratton, Maine USA23 Posts
I think im to picky thats why Im still single...hmmm
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Sep 25, 2007 12:28 AM CST why am i still single
kujhawkrulz
kujhawkrulzkujhawkrulzNeosho Falls, Kansas USA4 Threads 158 Posts
roflmao....I asked my friend this very question today so it's cool to see it on here.

Why am I single?

I did the old comparison thing in Wal-Mart the other day, looking at couples and when I walked out of the store I was so damn depressed I decided I better not ever do that again.

I actually tried to analyze and listen into conversations of couples to determine why they were mates. I didn't see any successful looking men, i.e. business suits with fat women. I did however see a few people that were like the odd couple and it made me wonder why they were together. I drove myself literally crazy trying to figure out why in the hell people were with each other.

I was very depressed when I left, because I knew for damn sure that there were people in there that were just plain out mismatched and that I would be a better suited mate. The fact of the matter is....they were both in the right place at the right time once upon a time. They grew together and fell in love for whatever various reason and I was busy trying to hold together a failed marriage and raise kids. Go figure that I believed in my vows.

I will never ever again in this lifetime try to analyze why others met their matches again, not only did it drive me crazy, it made me really sad that I wasted 13 years of my life and in that 13 years I could've possibly been with the man of my dreams. However, I do realize that I am the person today based on my past experiences and that I do understand a lot more then I would've had I not gone through what I had.

NO MORE ANALYZING WAL-MART SHOPPERS FOR THIS GIRL, I should've been looking at the cute butts that were not arm locked with a woman instead :)

You live and you learn and I've been doing a ton of learning lately, which is a good thing.

-Erin
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Sep 25, 2007 1:48 AM CST why am i still single
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada75 Threads 1 Polls 10,318 Posts
Best to focus on improving yourself and making your own life happy and then you will start attracting people into your life that you truly desire. I went to a seminar about 2 years ago and they talked about surrounding yourself with people who inspire you (ie. you learn from others without even realizing it sometimes) and when you cultivate yourself - people are drawn to these qualities in you.

When we have the attitude that their is something "wrong" with us - people pick up on these vibes without us even realizing that we are sending out this message. Ever been around someone who is down on themselves? Doesn't exactly attract people to us.
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Sep 25, 2007 2:01 AM CST why am i still single
LadyHawk75
LadyHawk75LadyHawk75Ocean Shores, Washington USA21 Threads 742 Posts
The proposals for me have come from mainly African and Turkish men. Most are good looking. Decisions decisions. Just wonder how many of them want to marry just so they can get into the US. I've had them tell me like pretty much right off the bat that they love me without getting to know me first. wow And then comes the question. rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 25, 2007 2:03 AM CST why am i still single
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA35 Threads 4,430 Posts
Absolutely
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Sep 26, 2007 9:30 PM CST why am i still single
rapsdynblu
rapsdynblurapsdynblumt. sterling, Kentucky USA181 Posts
wow wow sure ain't nothin' wrong with ya looks but i must tell you this, professor professor honey, the women ain't comin' after youscold scold scold or most won't anyway, you have to go after themcheers cheers hug hug comfort comfort
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Sep 26, 2007 9:33 PM CST why am i still single
rapsdynblu
rapsdynblurapsdynblumt. sterling, Kentucky USA181 Posts
crying crying crying well, i am still single cause nobody will have me
crying crying crying moping moping moping moping moping
mumbling mumbling mumbling mumbling mumbling mumbling
crying crying crying crying crying crying crying crying crying
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Sep 26, 2007 9:40 PM CST why am i still single
gtbulldog
gtbulldoggtbulldogTowson, Maryland USA35 Threads 3,885 Posts
comfort
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Sep 26, 2007 9:54 PM CST why am i still single
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA173 Threads 11,394 Posts
awww...hug
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