why am i still single ( Archived) (16)

am i that bad looking or what?

The best way to meet people is in the forums, showing your opinions, finding people of like minds.

If any of us could answer that...we wouldn't be here trying to answer that!!!!!

If I were a woman I'd date you in a second...

I'm single because I can't decide which middle eastern marriage proposal to accept..decisions, decisions, decisions..so many options.

I'm still waiting for the middle eastern women to start proposing to me!

I did get propositioned by a Russian though!

You should feel very priveleged..you know they could be chasing after all the available top of the line men in their own country and yet they came all the way here to find little ole you! LOL

I think im to picky thats why Im still single...hmmm

roflmao....I asked my friend this very question today so it's cool to see it on here.

Why am I single?

I did the old comparison thing in Wal-Mart the other day, looking at couples and when I walked out of the store I was so damn depressed I decided I better not ever do that again.

I actually tried to analyze and listen into conversations of couples to determine why they were mates. I didn't see any successful looking men, i.e. business suits with fat women. I did however see a few people that were like the odd couple and it made me wonder why they were together. I drove myself literally crazy trying to figure out why in the hell people were with each other.

I was very depressed when I left, because I knew for damn sure that there were people in there that were just plain out mismatched and that I would be a better suited mate. The fact of the matter is....they were both in the right place at the right time once upon a time. They grew together and fell in love for whatever various reason and I was busy trying to hold together a failed marriage and raise kids. Go figure that I believed in my vows.

I will never ever again in this lifetime try to analyze why others met their matches again, not only did it drive me crazy, it made me really sad that I wasted 13 years of my life and in that 13 years I could've possibly been with the man of my dreams. However, I do realize that I am the person today based on my past experiences and that I do understand a lot more then I would've had I not gone through what I had.

NO MORE ANALYZING WAL-MART SHOPPERS FOR THIS GIRL, I should've been looking at the cute butts that were not arm locked with a woman instead :)

You live and you learn and I've been doing a ton of learning lately, which is a good thing.

-Erin