To all Caucasian males. ( Locked) (123)

First i must say that this post is in no way hateful nor does it welcome hateful opinions. I appreciate, date and love all men regardless of color. I have noticed something similar in Europe and my country hence the following question.

Question is: Why is it more common for older white males than younger ones to hit on us black women? Are the older caucasian males more in need of a different experience because they've probably tried it all? Are the younger caucasian males less adventourous, openminded???
Don't bring in the golddigger bit because it happens with all races! I just want to know whay it is less likely for a younger white male to APPROACH me than an older one.


I appreciate any decent man i attract, but i'm just deeply curious to hear your views on this because my friends also wonder the same.
It just seems very common to see a much younger black woman with an older caucasian male than any other way!

i think any man whatever age colour or creed would be proud to have a attractive lady like you on his arm walking out; if you fall in love age colour creed dont matter at all its the love that matters;

Wisdom and age do indeed go hand in hand! Thanks Wedward, you're a sweetie!


Now why am i not surprised that younger caucasian males have no comment on this post!

Wisdom and age do indeed go hand in hand! Thanks Wedward, you're a sweetie!


Now why am i not surprised that younger caucasian males have no comment on this post!

I’m very much afraid that same age interracial relationships depend more on:

Social environment
Peer pressure not to pursue such relationships (could be parents, friends, pet moose etc)
Educational background
Psychological aspects

I would have thought that a young white person (male or female) would be more open to an interracial relationship (and I know I will be roasted alive for this) even if just for the sake of experimentation”.

Hmmmmm. Maybe that didn’t come out the way I wanted it…I should have rephrased it a bit better.

Contrary to what people think, being in a relationship IS a freaking big deal and nobody should be in a relationship just for the sake of it.

Older people (in this context – older white males) might have shed their inhibitions and are more open minded which is why they may be ready for an interracial relationship.

*shrug* That's my 0.02c and you can keep the change.

i play and teach my 10 yr old daughter and have the time and patience for her; big advantage of being an older father

Love, it may sound pretentious, but i do get young white males after me.

I've been dating white males for the last 9 years...all fresh.Always long term.I'm a long term type, when we decide it's serious.Why white males?Cause i fancy them.

This is the longest period i've been without a boyfriend.Why?Because i've grown, i'm more demanding.The next, should be for good...or at least a prospective father of my kids.

All kinds crossing my way...but hey, this time, i've designed the model.Some just have the bad things my formers had.Then i get scared.I now know what i don't want.
Maybe at the end i'll just pick any...but let me see how strong i can be.I'm getting weak...

I have dated young caucasian men too! Hasn't every woman??

My question is where are the serious ones?

They are rare for everyone baby.

Once they get old, they pretend to be wiser.

And because of the better mains of communication they think they can "be" everywhere, so why stick in one place!?

And the role of men as changed.They are no longer needed to lead the house, to feel the whole responsibility. So, they just feel free to do what they want...and get phobia of being traditional.Being traditional may mean be stucked...and, they just want to be free. I once had someone who said: "we will be doing everything what couples do, but...we are not really a couple ok?" He wanted to decide not to see me for a week for instance...feel that freedom!



Because of the stress, because we want to be so developed and with a considerable welfare...men need...tiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiime!