Step Parenting... ( Archived) (14)

Has anyone had experience of it and would you be able to advise me on a little matter

i could recommend a coupla really good books
but you think im an idiot

Get away with ya missus Any help even from that fantastic mind of yours

Have to say reading your posts has been the only enjoyment on here lately..you sure have a way with words

hello miss dragonfly!!




there are a few helpful places in here
and some include forums
where one can connect specifically

theres an older book called the blended family i think?
also that term is *ahem* significant in here...
theres also a complete idiots guide to stepparenting

the biggest thing is that the adults have agreed
teamwork and boundaries

a child is like a dog-no matter their age
they relax only when the fences are strong
(boundaries) otherwise they are anxious and constantly test
they dont want to be and arent responsible for family dynamics

we must be agreed and keep a cool head
be consistent and unemotional when reminding

takes practice thats fer sure and we arent perfect
kids dont expect us to be-just loving
and consistency/clarity helps them relax and feel loved
even tho they dont realize it and will never thank you.

Seriously I know I tend to be glib/flippant on here, but really need some input from Mums who have gone into relationships and also need Step Dads perspective on things

Mindfful, hit the nail on the head,

same page and consistency, without those two its a headbanger!!

I'm somewhat curious about this also. I'm at an age now where many of the woman I see online have kids. I like kids, but I'll admit its a bit daunting to consider going from having none, to say, having 2 that are already walking and talking:) Then there is the whole xmas/holiday/step dad in the picture.

Anyone stumble across any good articles or books about dating woman with children for single guys?

I have 4 step kids and believe me its not always easy. Just remember 1 thing, your not their DAD! and you can't replace him. Be yourself, I have found out that the kids enjoy having 2 Dads. It can also be something to be proud of!!