I just want to know....(for the guys) ( Archived) (43)

Oct 8, 2007 12:19 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
Am I that bad that I am not the kind of woman that noone would date or is there something that I am doing wrong? I am just wondering? Am to ugly or something, am I to independent? I just try to be myself but I am always getting told "oh well we are just to good of friends". Can you tell me what I am doing wrong? Am I just to nice do all of you want a bad girl or something? confused dunno
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Oct 8, 2007 12:25 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
Mysticalguy
MysticalguyMysticalguyEvansville, USA38 Threads 1,164 Posts
It takes patience and....patience. Some of us have been single for years, just waiting for that "special" one to come along with REAL love in her heart and a good head on her shoulders!
Don't settle on anyone just because you need to be with someone. Be into yourself, find out who YOU are. You're not the only woman who hasn't found her "prince", he's out there somewhere and often not as far as you might think! cheers
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Oct 8, 2007 12:28 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
I know I have been being patient but after all the losers that have crossed my door I just wonder if there is any good guys left and if they would be interested in a woman like me!wave hug
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Oct 8, 2007 12:29 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
smiylley17
smiylley17smiylley17Cortland, New York USA42 Threads 717 Posts
theres one out there for u dont worry .. in time
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Oct 8, 2007 12:37 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
Mysticalguy
MysticalguyMysticalguyEvansville, USA38 Threads 1,164 Posts
The "good guys" aren't so much in short supply as you might think. There are a lot of women who dump a good guy for one silly reason or another, one of them might have been destined for you, who know? There has been so much said about men in the past 20 years that one has the feeling that we're all jerks, hence your "good guys left" comment. Surely you, as others, are destined to meet your guy. Patience, patience.
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Oct 8, 2007 12:41 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
Itsalakelife
ItsalakelifeItsalakelifePrior Lake, Minnesota USA1 Threads 118 Posts
Don't make me start with the Iowan jokes! (it's a Hawkeye/Gopher thing)

Remember, you're only dealing with about .00000000000001732 percent of the population here on CS.

Keep posting in the forums. It's good exposure. Besides, the right guy may live two blocks over and may not even know about CS. You just never know. wink
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Oct 8, 2007 12:41 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
Sorry I know for the guys only,but reading I have to agree with this post and mysticals 1st post on here for you.Like you 1st and then wait for right 1comfort
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Oct 8, 2007 12:48 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
Iowan jokes huh! Yeah I know we are alll Idiots Out Wondering Around right!rolling on the floor laughing Well I thank all of you for the advice and I will try to heed every word of it and I hope that it will all keep coming but as of right now I must be off. Chicago needs their load of meat so I am in demand until I get there!rolling on the floor laughing Thank you all again!Please keep the advice coming!hug kiss
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Oct 8, 2007 2:06 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
jstreet610
jstreet610jstreet610Benton Harbor, Michigan USA9 Threads 135 Posts
I don't know about other guys, but I for one am looking for a nice girl. Unfortunately I have not got much going for me right now.
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Oct 8, 2007 2:42 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
sorry...i don't know youblushing
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Oct 8, 2007 8:18 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
dogsrule
dogsruledogsruleSomewhere, Massachusetts USA16 Threads 1 Polls 435 Posts
it's hard. You want to date to get to know people hoping you will find one that connects with you. Then you get told I wanna be friends. It makes you depressed thinking you have to date someone else and go thru the process of getting to know them. You just have to weed your garden to find the one. Hang in there.. cheering
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Oct 8, 2007 8:24 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
hug hug hug Just be yourself hunni and when its meant to happen it will........you are GORGEOUShug and have a lovely personality angel



Im still on the shelf babe .....atleast you have youth on your side ..look at me im 50 sigh bless ya xxxhug
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Oct 8, 2007 8:28 AM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Nothing wrong with you Dusty......it's them.......hug
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Oct 8, 2007 5:34 PM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
Sicilian_Angel
Sicilian_AngelSicilian_AngelAmherst, Ohio USA1 Threads 16 Posts
Like everyone said, you just need time. Some man will come along when you least expect it and tap you on your shoulder and take your breath away.........smiles. I have been sinlge for a long time and haven't found anyone either. I am older though so I guess it is harder? Let me give you a hug, they always help! hug
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Oct 8, 2007 5:37 PM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Don't feel bad, I been on here for over a year and only had two dates and they were bombs.
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Oct 8, 2007 5:39 PM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
Helmi_baroodi
Helmi_baroodiHelmi_baroodijeddah, Makkah Saudi Arabia26 Threads 274 Posts
Well all i have to say is dont search for it cuz they will find you

You sound very nice just stay the way you are

LET THEM ACCEPT YOU the way YOU are

best of luck

Cheersgrin
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Oct 8, 2007 5:40 PM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
And why is that? dunno
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Oct 8, 2007 7:49 PM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
Thank you all so much for all your input and compliments. I am trying to wait til it taps me on the shoulder but it is hard at times to do so. Keep it going I would love to hear any more suggestions that you all have and to the ladies who said something about your age. Well age is just a number and you are as young as you feel and you gals look awesome to me if a womans opinion counts any. Thank you all again.cheering hug handshake yay kiss
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Oct 8, 2007 8:15 PM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
jstreet610
jstreet610jstreet610Benton Harbor, Michigan USA9 Threads 135 Posts
I'm just overweight, broke and having some health problems
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Oct 8, 2007 8:19 PM CST I just want to know....(for the guys)
Mysticalguy
MysticalguyMysticalguyEvansville, USA38 Threads 1,164 Posts
I'm sorry to hear that jstreet610... Don't despair tho, you'd be amazed at how much difference a day makes!!

hug
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