Am I that bad that I am not the kind of woman that noone would date or is there something that I am doing wrong? I am just wondering? Am to ugly or something, am I to independent? I just try to be myself but I am always getting told "oh well we are just to good of friends". Can you tell me what I am doing wrong? Am I just to nice do all of you want a bad girl or something?
It takes patience and....patience. Some of us have been single for years, just waiting for that "special" one to come along with REAL love in her heart and a good head on her shoulders! Don't settle on anyone just because you need to be with someone. Be into yourself, find out who YOU are. You're not the only woman who hasn't found her "prince", he's out there somewhere and often not as far as you might think!
I know I have been being patient but after all the losers that have crossed my door I just wonder if there is any good guys left and if they would be interested in a woman like me!
The "good guys" aren't so much in short supply as you might think. There are a lot of women who dump a good guy for one silly reason or another, one of them might have been destined for you, who know? There has been so much said about men in the past 20 years that one has the feeling that we're all jerks, hence your "good guys left" comment. Surely you, as others, are destined to meet your guy. Patience, patience.
Sorry I know for the guys only,but reading I have to agree with this post and mysticals 1st post on here for you.Like you 1st and then wait for right 1
Iowan jokes huh! Yeah I know we are alll Idiots Out Wondering Around right! Well I thank all of you for the advice and I will try to heed every word of it and I hope that it will all keep coming but as of right now I must be off. Chicago needs their load of meat so I am in demand until I get there! Thank you all again!Please keep the advice coming!
it's hard. You want to date to get to know people hoping you will find one that connects with you. Then you get told I wanna be friends. It makes you depressed thinking you have to date someone else and go thru the process of getting to know them. You just have to weed your garden to find the one. Hang in there..
Like everyone said, you just need time. Some man will come along when you least expect it and tap you on your shoulder and take your breath away.........smiles. I have been sinlge for a long time and haven't found anyone either. I am older though so I guess it is harder? Let me give you a hug, they always help!
Thank you all so much for all your input and compliments. I am trying to wait til it taps me on the shoulder but it is hard at times to do so. Keep it going I would love to hear any more suggestions that you all have and to the ladies who said something about your age. Well age is just a number and you are as young as you feel and you gals look awesome to me if a womans opinion counts any. Thank you all again.
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