IVE BEEN IN AND OUT OF RELATIONSHIPS SINCE MY HUSBAND WAS KILLED IN 95'I'M NOT ON THE REBOUND BEEN BROKE UP FOR BOUT 8 MONTHS WITH LAST B/F WE WERE TOGETHER ALMOST 2 YRS.HE WAS A DEVIL IN SHEEPS CLOTHING!
I am sorry about your husband. Most of us have tales of misery and can relate, and you are not the first here to lose a husband violently. May I recommend lower case letters. Upper case is for shouting. Better to reserve them for when you are shouting, but maybe you were. I know, you might feel like shouting. Well, hang out here, talk to people for a while, and there is a good chance you will find someone because you are very attractive and seem to know how to display your, uh, assets well. Read posts, add your 2 cents worth, make some friends, and soon you will get email messages and flowers from people you know from the forums and feel much closer to than just the strangers who might have profiles up. Ask for help when you need it, please.
I know just how you feel, as far as feeling all alone. I am so sorry for your loss, words can never fully express those sentiments to someone. My problem has always been not being discriminate enough. When I give to someone, I give everything and treat that person like a king. I don't usually get that in return. I devoted 10 years to a man who I cooked steak dinners for, drew him a hot bath every night when he got home from work, irened and layed his clothes out every morning, made his lunch, just devoted my life to him and he wound uo being an abusive alcoholic.
One just never knows. All you can do is hope for the best and not let the past have an effect on what's to be. As much as you want to be suuspicious of every one, there has to be trust in relationships n and you have to give guys a chance to prove themselves.
Just be cautious and looks for signs in the future.
im sorry to here about your husband, my condolances. sp? if you want to talk to someone honest and not the same ol b...s... email me i thin your honest and very attractive. im tired of being lonley too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Solitare- I completly agree, he has a well chosen name. And what was the point to hi comment anyways? HOW RUDE!
My input is patience also not that I am really practicing what I preach, I too am tired of being alone but what else can you do but put yourself out there for the world to see and wait, talk, listen etc! Good luck to us all! :)
So she's pathetic? We're all pathetic? Jr, why are you here? Are you the son of waverider? Come on, if you're not going to at least show some decency, and try to help, please don't hang around. One "waverider" is enough, well too much.
Lady,
I'm sorry for your loss of your husband, and sorry for what you've been thru since. Keep your head up, and don't give up. You'll see, good things will come your way. Stick around, there are some VERY good people here (with a couple exceptions), and we are here to help each other. If something comes to mind, look for a specific thread, or start your own. Enjoy yourself here.
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