enya1234567890OPRedwood City, California USA115 posts
seriously, where have all the good ones gone? i've met three guys, all of whom have broken my heart in one way or another. people keep telling me to hold on, but it's annoying(argh!!!) this might sound pathetic, but i'm starting to wonder if i should give up on this. after all, all it's turned up for me are complete losers that treat women as if they're objects.*tear*
I was just like that wanting to give up! But you know what? i found the man i love with all my heart and soul on this site! i always strive on the saying Good things come to those who wait! Im still a youngin, and have a long road to life to live and learn, but i found one and he is a keeper! So keep your head held high and your chin up! this is a great site! if nothing else you will met a life time of friends!
i hear ya hun... been in the datin scene for like 2 weeks now... lol... but i was single about 2 yrs... just divorced in august... just now used to that fact and am moving on for the first time... b patient... u will find ur mr. right
Your absolutly right !! I have never had luck with the online dating even the women can be pretty shallow , I've met some nice people on the forums only . And they seem to be all out of touch. It sucks I know
hey niceguy... its funny... i watched something the other night and it was some survey thing and it stated that women r more shallow towards looks than men... i couldnt believe it cause we can b bad about that ourselves... lol... the forums r cool tho...
Well, as long as you don't completely rely on the fact that they're there, I don't see anything wrong. Besides, for some of us, it's not that we're lazy, but we're simply not ready yet to live off our own resources.
But back to the topic on hand, just keep on going, girl. If you find a friend in them, hold on to them, but if breaking your heart means breaking your friendship also, well... grab a bandage, apply some disinfectant to that scar, and simply hope for a better future.
It's like what I heard some time back from a rather old movie. An old woman had her heart broken by a man she loved, and the main character simply told her a story of his own, how he never used a pair of brand new rollerblades and outgrew them: "How will you know that you can ever find love again if you don't use your heart?"
I'm not saying that it won't hurt. It will. It always does. But like anything else in the past, you can "either run from it... or learn from it." Keep strong, and look forward to tomorrow.
enya... not so bad living w/ 'mommy' as u say... since the beginning of this month... ive sorta had to stay w/ my parents for the kids sake... that way we all help each other out w/ them... as soon as school is out i wont b hangin around here for long... im gettin a place w/ the boys... lookin foward to it actually... i hate being under the same roof as my parents... we dont c eye to eye on anything... and hybrid i totally agree on the love advice man...
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