I hate dating!!! ( Archived) (88)

Oct 14, 2007 5:02 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
I am so upset. I was invited out last night to meet up with a guy that I have been talking to for a little while now. He is local and I have seen him around for some time. So I got ready and went to the pre arranged place that we had agreed to meet. I was so floored when he walked in with another girl.

How can someone play with another persons feelings like that....

Thank God for friends...they would not let me leave and would not let me be alone...they were by my side all night.

Why does this keep happening???? I am not the type of person to push for someone to be with me, I was not even the one who was asking to start dating....

I don't get it....can anyone helphelp crying crying crying
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Oct 14, 2007 5:30 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
I guess no one wants to touch something like this....thanks to those of you who at least read it.
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Oct 14, 2007 5:34 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
You are saying he asked you out and then showed up with another woman?.. Man that was low.. I can't even understand why someone would do that... Here are some hugs for you..hug hug hug
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Oct 14, 2007 5:35 AM CST I hate dating!!!
gtbulldog
gtbulldoggtbulldogTowson, Maryland USA32 Threads 2,873 Posts
comfort hug Out of all the dates that I have been on.I have always
been on time,keep my word for showing up and flowers. I went on a
date one time to a night club and I sat there for a good hour and she
never showed up.Next day she calls and said something come up.moping
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Oct 14, 2007 5:36 AM CST I hate dating!!!
sassychele
sassychelesassycheleGresham, USA47 Threads 3,342 Posts
Oh thats awful sigh comfort hug
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Oct 14, 2007 5:36 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Westdeck
WestdeckWestdeckAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1,649 Posts
Some humans... confused
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Oct 14, 2007 5:36 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
YEP, that is what I am saying.....to top it off, he didn't even act like he knew me....I haven't been able to stop crying since I got home...
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Oct 14, 2007 5:39 AM CST I hate dating!!!
sassychele
sassychelesassycheleGresham, USA47 Threads 3,342 Posts
comfort Some people are so meanvery mad


comfort hug
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Oct 14, 2007 5:39 AM CST I hate dating!!!
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
What an idiot... can't even imagine anyone being that insensitive. I'd say you had a lucky escape.

Never had that happen, but can feel how gutted one would be..

To be honest, it sounds as if he wanted to punish you for some reason?? Do you have history?

hug comfort hug
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Oct 14, 2007 5:39 AM CST I hate dating!!!
gtbulldog
gtbulldoggtbulldogTowson, Maryland USA32 Threads 2,873 Posts
If I went out on a date with you,I would keep my word.There are real
Gentlemen and Players in this world. I am not a player.
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Oct 14, 2007 5:40 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
I think if I were you I would have threw my drink in his face and slapped him...
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Oct 14, 2007 5:41 AM CST I hate dating!!!
gtbulldog
gtbulldoggtbulldogTowson, Maryland USA32 Threads 2,873 Posts
comfort hug
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Oct 14, 2007 5:41 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
no, he asked me out two weeks ago and we have seen each other twice before...everything seemed fine. he even called me friday night to see if we were still on.....I have never done anything to him that would make him want to punish me.
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Oct 14, 2007 5:42 AM CST I hate dating!!!
sassychele
sassychelesassycheleGresham, USA47 Threads 3,342 Posts
Yeah because then the other woman would see it ....and then he wouldnt have had a date either
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Oct 14, 2007 5:42 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
thanks GT....means a lot right now
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Oct 14, 2007 5:44 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Sounds to me that he is a player, or maybe he was using you to get back at a girlfriend.. but either way what he did was wrong.. he should have been up front with you..
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Oct 14, 2007 5:45 AM CST I hate dating!!!
gtbulldog
gtbulldoggtbulldogTowson, Maryland USA32 Threads 2,873 Posts
You know babe,us people on Cs are behind you 100 percent.wink
Remember that word Karma.
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Oct 14, 2007 5:46 AM CST I hate dating!!!
gtbulldog
gtbulldoggtbulldogTowson, Maryland USA32 Threads 2,873 Posts
You are right buddy!thumbs up
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Oct 14, 2007 5:46 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
That's right....I forgot about that GT....thanks (*tries to smile*)
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Oct 14, 2007 5:48 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
Why can't any of you be closer??? I could use a real shoulder about now....
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