not another mama's boy ( Archived) (18)

Oct 14, 2007 6:53 PM CST not another mama's boy
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
ok, so i had met this fella from CS, we dated for a couple weeks, seemed okay at first, he was funny and sweet, til I found out he is 40 and living with his mama, and has to lie to her to sneak out for dates cos she doesn't approve, okay that was freaky.....but now it's good for a laugh...so bring on some laughs...i could use some right now.....grin tongue
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Oct 14, 2007 6:59 PM CST not another mama's boy
lostsoulinspace
lostsoulinspacelostsoulinspacechocowinity, North Carolina USA9 Threads 521 Posts
sounds like hes very, very,very,very close to his mommy.scold
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Oct 14, 2007 7:01 PM CST not another mama's boy
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
guurrrrl

i canNOT top that one

weird award


sorry
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Oct 14, 2007 7:03 PM CST not another mama's boy
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
wierd, yes, also damn funny!!!!laugh
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Oct 14, 2007 7:05 PM CST not another mama's boy
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Some years ago I had a boyfriend who EVERY time he was here, would call his mum to say he had arrived. (20miles)

Throughout the weekends he was here, she would call him about four times per day and stay talking for about 20mins at a time. (all of which he seemed to find perfectly normal .. he was 36yrs) I remember her calling at 7.30am.. and midnight too! for a *Goodnight chat*

Every Friday night he (i discovered) his mother and father would go to their local pub for a *Quiz night*.

On the Friday evenings that he was here.. she would call him after *Quiz night* and tell him all the questions.. so that HE could have a go at answering them.. frustrated

He was GOBSMACKED blues when I said that I didn't think he should see each other any more. doh
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Oct 14, 2007 7:06 PM CST not another mama's boy
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
did he have to sneak out cos his mommy didn't want him to date.....rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 14, 2007 7:10 PM CST not another mama's boy
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
jaw drop freaky!!!
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Oct 14, 2007 7:56 PM CST not another mama's boy
Shinedown7593
Shinedown7593Shinedown7593Roseville, USA47 Threads 667 Posts
This reminds me of The Waterboy

"M-Mama says that alligators are ornery because they got all them teeth and no toothbrush."rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 14, 2007 8:03 PM CST not another mama's boy
injuneer
injuneerinjuneerClarksville, Tennessee USA1 Threads 55 Posts
Of course, the obvious questions I would hope you asked were:

1. Is he living there in order to care for her as many baby boomers are
having to do for elder parents these days.

2. Is he really sneaking out or just showing his mother respect by asking
her if he may go out? Sure, he's obviously an adult, but coping with an
elder parent is sometimes easier to play the game and keep the peace
by being subsurvient.

Not suggesting you are wrong, but if you jumped to a conclusion without getting all the facts, you might have just lost a man that loves and respects his mother; and isn't afraid to show that.

Of course, if he is living at home because he's afraid to get out on his own and be responsible, that's a different story .... but it pays to find out for sure. He might just have turned out to be a very kind and considerate man that is dealing with difficult times, helping his mother, and just trying to be a good son ................. you could do far worse in finding a man.....
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Oct 14, 2007 8:10 PM CST not another mama's boy
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
any 40 year old man that can't tell his mommy he has a date....maybe a male, but definitly not a man!!wine
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Oct 14, 2007 8:12 PM CST not another mama's boy
peacemom764
peacemom764peacemom764Dover, Delaware USA2 Threads 847 Posts
U r so right ship...thumbs up thumbs up
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Oct 14, 2007 8:14 PM CST not another mama's boy
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
I can beat both, and this is a real story.

I know someone, hes older than me....responsible, tall dark handsome etc.....and he used to take his washing around to his mum for her to do!!

Thats bad enough but when your married and live with your wife and go around to mums and she combs your hair like a 4 year old its a bit creepy!!

My mum happened to see one such episode and we laughed about it!

I've done something the caring son bit too, hard work being pulled in different directions , but i never did the weird calls or pub quiz things!!

Sometimes truth really is stranger than fiction, and creepier too!!
laugh
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Oct 14, 2007 8:26 PM CST not another mama's boy
nockuout1
nockuout1nockuout1waterbury, USA19 Threads 793 Posts
no relly I tought you had a dte this week...? if you did how did it go? I thought I saw you bring it up in nother thread eirlier this week..... why this one just had to laugh? it is funny that the dude has to lie to his mom to have date and hes 40....wow at 40 now I wish I just had my mom still..peace
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Oct 14, 2007 9:10 PM CST not another mama's boy
I hear you loud and clear....know of someone like that....it made the situation difficult..til I find out that she(mama) never liked any woman he brought home...lol
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Oct 14, 2007 9:11 PM CST not another mama's boy
your response is very good..it shows the situation in another light
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Oct 14, 2007 9:14 PM CST not another mama's boy
Dark_Soul
Dark_SoulDark_SoulAltoona, Pennsylvania USA4 Threads 119 Posts
I'm all for having a close relationship with the maternal unit...but I'm sorry...you can only have your balls in one woman's purse at a time. And when the girl you're dating realizes it's not hers, you won't be dating her much longer.

laugh

~Max
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Oct 14, 2007 9:15 PM CST not another mama's boy
popololo
popololopopololochch or near, New Zealand2 Posts
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Oct 15, 2007 9:07 AM CST not another mama's boy
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
he TOLD me he had to sneak out cos his "mommy" didn't approve of him dating.....
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