I have no feelings for my ex husband...even though in the years I have known him I have felt everything...now I feel absolutely nothing and that is the most wonderful feeling in the world I could have for him...
Nowadays, he's my best friend, only lives 2 streets away so still see him often. I feel he really is a lovely bloke with an heart of gold and a loyal friend.
right now I am living with my ex....while my new place is getting fixed up. She is my best friend and we would do anything for each other. We love each other...we are just not IN love with each other....go figure!!
EuphoOPWild Wild South West, England UK6,581 posts
I wrote this on the Ice Cream thread.. so sorry if you read it already...
My ex husband and I are best mates too.. we have been for years (after the initial few years of wishing a cruel and untimely death on each other.. haha)
We just got to the point where we thought this is just ridiculous.. we both love the kids.. and the only people we are hurting is them.. and each other.. so we stopped. We tell each other just about EVERYTHING.. and speak on the phone almost daily.
We holiday together... stay at each others houses.. bail each other out. and he has a fiancée who is my (now) friend.. When we go to stay with them.. he takes the kids out and she and I go shop and eat.. laugh
Its sooo much healthy and better for us all. We get on FAR better than ever when we were married.
We had a BAD marriage.. but over the years we've both grown and changed.
Like Ships said.. we love each other but are not IN love.
ex husbands............can't stand either one but that's because of how they treat my boys
now my last b/f......he and i are best friends, talk about everything, and are there for each other for the good and bad times...............that's the way i like to end things
I have two very young beautiful girls and we and my ex probaly get along better then before we plan to go on vacation together with the kids ...we are probaly real close to being best friends
you know, although my ex did me wrong, that is all in the past. I find it easy to forgive people...once the hurt is gone. I only wish I could forgive myself as easily as I can forgive others
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How do you feel about them nowadays?