Would you rather no tell someone if it's gonna hurt them? (30)
Oh definitely tell the truth... my conscience woudd get the best of me if I didnt...
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Truth
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I tell the truth but soften the blow as much as possible...i'm all considerate like that.....though if they come back and ask for a loan, ask to move back in, or want to borrow the car i have to draw the line somewhere.
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exactly the same here
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Exactly...
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..That's nice...I always do the same, but evne if you.. tell it softly, they will suffer the same.. ...sorry, it was just too much...YOU'RE FUNNY!!!Watch for those car keys...
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I believe we women tend to do that more than guys...now what do you think about that??
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I have to say I would do the same.Because if something did happen and I kept shut as if I could,I rather go down in flames knowing I put it all out there to them.
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I agree. I think, in my experience anyway in dating, the guys would rather not call you or just stop writing versus telling you its not working out.
I am getting ready to tell this guy I have been seeing to either stop writing, emailing, calling me for 1 week to back off or its over. Its going to fast and he is to into me. I dont want to hurt him but dont want to lead him on either. IF I was one of the guys I just dated, I would just stop calling, answering the phone, just disappear.. I think its chickens--t to do that.
I am getting ready to tell this guy I have been seeing to either stop writing, emailing, calling me for 1 week to back off or its over. Its going to fast and he is to into me. I dont want to hurt him but dont want to lead him on either. IF I was one of the guys I just dated, I would just stop calling, answering the phone, just disappear.. I think its chickens--t to do that.
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I hear you... 
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That too...how about it? Why do they do that also??? OMG...and why arent u into this guy....who is he, do we know him??
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he is a local guy. I am not into him cause he moves so fast, is not very worldly experienced. I am very attracted to him but think its just lust.. Just to soon to know.. Hell, I just got divorced and this new guy wants me to be with only him..
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In an ideal world, I think we'd all opt for truth over lies, of course. You talk about NOT telling someone something that may hurt them, but then you talk about opting for a lie or the truth? Different......
I would have to way up the pros and cons of telling them and them facing a temporary hurt against not telling them, and choose the lesser of two evils. Each situation would have to be judged on its own merits, I don't think you can have a rule of thumb here. Life is not black and white.... if only it were that simple...!!
I would have to way up the pros and cons of telling them and them facing a temporary hurt against not telling them, and choose the lesser of two evils. Each situation would have to be judged on its own merits, I don't think you can have a rule of thumb here. Life is not black and white.... if only it were that simple...!!
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I think sometimes is better to say nothing,if you know that can hurt the people.....Does not mean you are not honest..
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True, very true....you need to have some FUN NOW....Just keep him around...
But be honest though...honesty takes you far, very far...
But be honest though...honesty takes you far, very far...
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I know life aint simple, but it was a simple question though...not to think too much, pretty simple...you know somebody is lying to another person, do u tell that person and save her/him the suffering when they're more into a relationship or not, SIMPLE... Everybody else understood...
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Even if you know they will suffer more in the future???
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I will, thanks. He is very nice and I do enjoy him. I just dont want to be smothered. There is a guy I am writing on line(not this site) that seems nice and want to see how that goes. I think if I am looking at different guys profiles I am not ready to be with only this local guy. Well off to his house, he is barbq steaks for me. Have a great day everyone.. cheers..
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Have fun sweetie...best of luck to you!!
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Have always chose to tell the truth, sometimes they have believed me, sometimes they have stopped talking to me, only to come back later and tell me how right I was.
So, I rather tell the truth, what would you guys do??