Do you do anythingspecial when you are going to meet someone for the first time, as in a date? You know, like buy something new or spend extra time getting that just right look??
I may get some flowers. Hmmm. The car is always clean anyway. But other than that, my favorite clothes, facial hair, etc. I would prefer she see me as who I am...
That is exactly what I do. Since people are so hung up about not presenting yourself honestly, I go on a date just like I do any other night. I always dress well when I go out!!
Pleasure or pain? Well also useful just to tie up and really have a "conversation."
Oh, myself . . . . hmmm yeah I agree I'd try to be myself, but it wouldn't hurt to have a bouquet of flowers. You know, "Look for me in a blue shirt, blonde hair, glasses . . . . oh yeah, and carrying some roses."
At least she'll identify me by the roses. It all depends on that first date, but can't go wrong with flowers unless she is allergic.
I confess, I forget the flowers. But otherwise we meet so she can see what I am really like. A always dress nice and clean. I wear my shirt tails out, to cover my fat. So that's what i do on a date. I don't want some nagging woman 10 years down the line saying. You always had your shirt tucked in, you looked so nice, before we were married. My attitude now is....take me as I am or let me go.
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