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Oct 27, 2007 3:51 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
cupcakeness
cupcakenesscupcakenessAldergrove, British Columbia Canada62 Threads 1 Polls 367 Posts
would you choose to have a long distance relationship?
I think I would actually prefer it.. i like my space
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Oct 27, 2007 3:54 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
Honestly, I would prefer someone close enough to me so that we could comute easily....

But if that option isn't there....I would be ok with a long distance relationship. I am the type of person who can wait it I have to mumbling (not saying I like it though...LOL)grin
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Oct 27, 2007 3:56 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
LostInIndiana
LostInIndianaLostInIndianaSouth Bend, Indiana USA2 Threads 292 Posts
Nope .... been there, done that .... after time it becomes too hard .... a relationship is meant for 2 people to be together, not constantly separated.
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Oct 27, 2007 4:02 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
And the physical aspect of it?

confused
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Oct 27, 2007 4:04 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
Mort_A_Moose
Mort_A_MooseMort_A_MooseAthabasca, Canada11 Threads 282 Posts
The distance can always be decreased! The ex started out nearly three thousand miles away,...and after time the distance was eliminated,....but has returned to about three,......light years! :-) Distance only matters when aircraft are grounded!
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Oct 27, 2007 4:05 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
jackiedd
jackieddjackieddMesa, Arizona USA5 Threads 343 Posts
I agree! moping
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Oct 27, 2007 4:09 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
coastalblues
coastalbluescoastalbluestoledo, Oregon USA7 Threads 221 Posts
there are some things a long distance relationship just cant give you ...like that hug when your down to cuddle while watching a movie and so on ....I have had a relationship where we were apart for some time but had already had a strong relationship before we were separated...not sure if you could form a strong bond with someone far away....I know some have but not sure it would work for me
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Oct 27, 2007 4:13 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
It wouldn't be my first choice, but there could be some advantages. One would be the opportunity to visit a new place. I like Athens' advice about planning an alternative venue when visiting a new friend, in the event the sparks don't fly (or they do, and you get burned laugh )
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Oct 27, 2007 4:14 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
cupcakeness
cupcakenesscupcakenessAldergrove, British Columbia Canada62 Threads 1 Polls 367 Posts
you dont always need to be physical to know youre in love
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Oct 27, 2007 4:16 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
I don't mind the idea of starting something long distance but it can't go on forever like that. Eventually one or both will have to move.
Living apart in a relationship is exactly that. Apart! Not the way I want to spend the rest of my life.wink
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Oct 27, 2007 4:20 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
well said...

I agreethumbs up handshake
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Oct 27, 2007 4:23 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
LostInIndiana
LostInIndianaLostInIndianaSouth Bend, Indiana USA2 Threads 292 Posts
But the question wasn't about love or being physical .... it was about an LTR .... and without the first two, the third gets hard to maintain.
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Oct 27, 2007 4:24 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
LostInIndiana
LostInIndianaLostInIndianaSouth Bend, Indiana USA2 Threads 292 Posts
Sorry, quoted the wrong post.
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Oct 27, 2007 4:29 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
a_l_e_x
a_l_e_xa_l_e_xlondon, Greater London, England UK62 Threads 1,813 Posts
sure i would move heaven and hell to be with the one i loved and wated to be with yay
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Oct 27, 2007 4:32 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
if a good foundation was in place I like to think I could handle LDR.

without the good foundation would never consider it.
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Oct 27, 2007 4:33 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
If I was in a good mood, I might move across the street. I'm not moving anywhere for anyone. Hence, I'm single thumbs up
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Oct 27, 2007 4:36 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
totallytopside
totallytopsidetotallytopsideIronton, Minnesota USA5 Threads 524 Posts
I guess I would take it however it was dished out. The details can always be adjusted at a later date. Distance isn't as much of a barrier as it used to be.

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Oct 27, 2007 4:36 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I've been in one - better than not being in a relationship at all, to be sure. Unless there's a light at the end of the tunnel (relocation) it is a daunting prospect.
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Oct 27, 2007 4:47 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Come to think of it, I'd probably like your "space" too! rolling on the floor laughing devil laugh
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Oct 27, 2007 4:52 PM CST if you HAD to choose..
cupcakeness
cupcakenesscupcakenessAldergrove, British Columbia Canada62 Threads 1 Polls 367 Posts
Great attitude :)
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