are the most MISUSED words on earth. They don't seem to be used ENOUGH when dealing with family and friends............and used TO MUCH when people start dating or simply talking to each other.
I may use luv ya which is for FRIENDS in emails etc..... but if I ever say "I LOVE YOU" then I mean it with all my heart.....
Some families NEVER give hugs or say I love you. In this case how do you KNOW your loved. I grew up in one of those families. Dad was 62 and mom 42 when I was born. At the time I was toooo blind to know they cared. Later I realized they showed me in a million ways. But I said my kids and family would NEVER have to guess. I tell them everytime I talk with them.
How about you...are you guilty of using these 3 simple words TOO MUCH or NOT ENOUGH
Tori1971wollongong, New South Wales Australia115 posts
My kids are told everyday followed by a huge hug I think its very important to tell the people you love thatyou love them I dont say it to any one I only say it when i truely mean it .
My family is very touchy feely. If your someone I (or we) care about and near me I will touch you. I dont mean grope or fondle I mean touch your arm, your back. My nephews and brother and I are always grabbing each other and horsing around. It can take people a while to get used to us because we are all like that, from my father to my kids. If your near we will touch you, and dont get my mother started on hugs, shes a monster. I have been guilty of saying I love you too easily or fast or not enough. People close to me I tell as often as I can. Ive learned after losing my grandparents it can never be said too much to those you really care about. As I have aged I dont "fall in love" as quickly, but once it hits it hits hard and strong, and I voice my feelings. Such is The Dad of Ducks...
I had to LEARN to be able to hug someone and tell them I loved them. NOW you can't get me to shut up.... Tommorrow is not promised to any of us. Had a death in the family AND another friend that both passed away last week. Tell the people you care about constantly.... they may not be here tomorrow....
BUT on the other hand don't you hate it when you start talking with someone new and within a couple of days they start telling you immediately that they love you....I RUN BIG TIME.... they are wanting something from you.....
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I may use luv ya which is for FRIENDS in emails etc..... but if I ever say "I LOVE YOU" then I mean it with all my heart.....
Some families NEVER give hugs or say I love you. In this case how do you KNOW your loved. I grew up in one of those families. Dad was 62 and mom 42 when I was born. At the time I was toooo blind to know they cared. Later I realized they showed me in a million ways. But I said my kids and family would NEVER have to guess. I tell them everytime I talk with them.
How about you...are you guilty of using these 3 simple words TOO MUCH or NOT ENOUGH