ltlmstroubleOPMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK1,635 posts
Why do the men in my life tell me that I am strong and that I can get over things with no problems?
I received a text this morning saying hi how are you hope you are well miss you... I reply saying the usual and hey you told me to move on so why do u miss me.. Text comes back-- you move on easily you are strong... bye...
I am sick of hearing that I am strong. I want to be weak and to be cared for.
Am I mad, or is this the new way that men justify themselves when they decide to move on?
Almost everyone I've had contact with today seems down and sad, can someone start a silly funny thread that we can all get involved in and maybe end the day with a smile??
i know exactly what you mean about always being told how strong you are..........some days i just hate it so much............people don't always get it that just because you are strong there are times you need to be the one who's weak and you need to be loved and cared for and allowed to cry
on a lighter note................we're playin naked twister with baby oil in the other thread.........bring some friends lol especially male they are sadly lackin this mornin
I have the same problem...I am very strong...BUT in being strong people seem to forget that I still have feelings and emotions...like sadness and other vulerabilities...they forget that I need people just like anyone else....being strong does not mean we are not human...I find the people that lean on me because I am strong are very often not there when I need to lean back...So strength can be a double edged sword sometimes!!!!!!!
Well it's been my experience that it does seem easier for women to get past a relationship than a man.. I don't know why that is.. but then I guess it depends on which one it was that ended the relationship.. I know for me when I truly love someone I give her all my love down to the core of my very being.. and getting over that kind of love is the hardest thing I ever had to do.. Thank God though that enough time has went by and the terrible pain I went through is over now..
Daniel, i want your experience...........most women i know have a harder time moving on than men.....and i don't just mean physically. we just tend to cover it up with smiles and bravado
Well I did say I guess it depends on which one it was that broke it off with the other.. If you look at it that way the I believe the one that didn't want the break up is the one that will hurt the most..
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I received a text this morning saying hi how are you hope you are well miss you... I reply saying the usual and hey you told me to move on so why do u miss me..
Text comes back-- you move on easily you are strong... bye...
I am sick of hearing that I am strong. I want to be weak and to be cared for.
Am I mad, or is this the new way that men justify themselves when they decide to move on?
Almost everyone I've had contact with today seems down and sad, can someone start a silly funny thread that we can all get involved in and maybe end the day with a smile??