I don't want to be the strong one anymore!! ( Archived) (95)

Nov 4, 2007 7:32 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
Why do the men in my life tell me that I am strong and that I can get over things with no problems?
dunno
I received a text this morning saying hi how are you hope you are well miss you... I reply saying the usual and hey you told me to move on so why do u miss me..
Text comes back-- you move on easily you are strong... bye...
sigh

I am sick of hearing that I am strong. I want to be weak and to be cared for.

Am I mad, or is this the new way that men justify themselves when they decide to move on?
blues

Almost everyone I've had contact with today seems down and sad, can someone start a silly funny thread that we can all get involved in and maybe end the day with a smile??

yay
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Nov 4, 2007 7:33 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Yeah!! come play with us on naked twister thread hug
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Nov 4, 2007 7:34 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
hiya babe




well im going out soon...but i can start a silly thread laters



nmaughty too....lolhug hug
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Nov 4, 2007 7:34 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
i know exactly what you mean about always being told how strong you are..........some days i just hate it so much............people don't always get it that just because you are strong there are times you need to be the one who's weak and you need to be loved and cared for and allowed to cry

hug


on a lighter note................we're playin naked twister with baby oil in the other thread.........bring some friends loldevil especially male they are sadly lackin this mornin
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Nov 4, 2007 7:36 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
Thanks all---

The men are watching us girls play naked twister all slicked up in baby oil....

It is their secret fantasy that is why they are not participating...

Come on boys prove me wrong!!

devil
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Nov 4, 2007 7:37 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing you are soooooooooooooooo smartrolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 4, 2007 7:37 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
I have the same problem...I am very strong...BUT in being strong people seem to forget that I still have feelings and emotions...like sadness and other vulerabilities...they forget that I need people just like anyone else....being strong does not mean we are not human...I find the people that lean on me because I am strong are very often not there when I need to lean back...So strength can be a double edged sword sometimes!!!!!!!

conversing conversing
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Nov 4, 2007 7:38 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
Willowsway
WillowswayWillowswayNew Hamburg, Ontario Canada8 Threads 251 Posts
I get that all the time too, and I hate to say this, but maybe in my case I have created that image myself. Oops did I say that in my outside voice.roll eyes
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Nov 4, 2007 7:38 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
Oh no....
Strong and smart, isn't that the kiss of death??

sigh
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Nov 4, 2007 7:40 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Well it's been my experience that it does seem easier for women to get past a relationship than a man.. I don't know why that is.. but then I guess it depends on which one it was that ended the relationship..
I know for me when I truly love someone I give her all my love down to the core of my very being.. and getting over that kind of love is the hardest thing I ever had to do.. Thank God though that enough time has went by and the terrible pain I went through is over now..
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Nov 4, 2007 7:40 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
doh dang it could be




Ok i retract my statement so as not to give the kiss of death!!!


she's funny and breezy and kinda air-headed and loads of fun to be around and needs just enough not to drive ya crazy!


comfort there all better!
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Nov 4, 2007 7:42 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
Daniel, i want your experience...........most women i know have a harder time moving on than men.....and i don't just mean physically. we just tend to cover it up with smiles and bravadohelp
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Nov 4, 2007 7:42 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
LOL rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Don't forget blonde too...... that should dispell the smart thing at least..


cheering
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Nov 4, 2007 7:45 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
"..or is this the new way that men justify themselves when they decide to move on?"


Sadly yes and it's getting old hearing line. I get it too.









drinking
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Nov 4, 2007 7:45 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
I am not down, nor sad....
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Nov 4, 2007 7:46 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
forgot "......'this' hearing this line"



drinking
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Nov 4, 2007 7:46 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
doh now see i was gonna put that in there but didn't want to offend you
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Nov 4, 2007 7:47 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Neaither am i.



wave Tumpa.
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Nov 4, 2007 7:48 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Well I did say I guess it depends on which one it was that broke it off with the other.. If you look at it that way the I believe the one that didn't want the break up is the one that will hurt the most..
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Nov 4, 2007 7:48 AM CST I don't want to be the strong one anymore!!
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
Hi LS. Nice to see a L.S. as opposed to the D&S.
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