Married Twice or more?? ( Archived) (30)

Mar 21, 2006 5:59 PM CST Married Twice or more??
dvdmcm33
dvdmcm33dvdmcm33Tunbridge wells, Kent, England UK21 Threads 472 Posts
How did it all pan out for you?
Did you get it right 2nd time or was 1st Better?
how do things change the more you Marry?
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Mar 21, 2006 6:20 PM CST Married Twice or more??
joolsthe1
joolsthe1joolsthe1edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK38 Threads 377 Posts
been married twice-neither time was right-good and bad in both marriages! changes: twice bitten, thrice shy! lol
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Mar 21, 2006 6:42 PM CST Married Twice or more??
medieval
medievalmedievalunited kingdom, Grampian, Scotland UK31 Threads 295 Posts
Twice the dream, never no more.x
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Mar 21, 2006 6:56 PM CST Married Twice or more??
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
Damn near got it right the second time. No regrets.

Change? Less expectations, more realistic.
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Mar 21, 2006 7:05 PM CST Married Twice or more??
Lillyofthevalley
LillyofthevalleyLillyofthevalleySt John's, Newfoundland Canada38 Threads 3,152 Posts
third times the charm Doll ...worked for my Dad...and they met on the internet WOOO HOO!
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Mar 21, 2006 7:08 PM CST Married Twice or more??
highplains
highplainshighplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA127 Threads 4,288 Posts
Married twice...hope the third times the charm...who knows what role the internet might play.........
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Mar 21, 2006 7:08 PM CST Married Twice or more??
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
Ain't happening. I'm steadfast on remaining sinful from here on out. $30 to get in it, 4 and 5 digits to get out.

Hellllllllllllllllllll nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.
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Mar 21, 2006 7:11 PM CST Married Twice or more??
Lillyofthevalley
LillyofthevalleyLillyofthevalleySt John's, Newfoundland Canada38 Threads 3,152 Posts
Yup exactly what my ad said after the first and second marriage...lol
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Mar 21, 2006 7:11 PM CST Married Twice or more??
3 times for me, hell I even married the second one
again.
What i learned is people are people. And everything changes, even if I don't...
And the biggest thing.... when they leave they take the kids you fall in love with with them, and that hurts most of all..
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Mar 21, 2006 7:19 PM CST Married Twice or more??
TooHottTiger
TooHottTigerTooHottTigerSevierville, USA1 Threads 9 Posts
Married twice. Rushed in both times. This time .... slowwww and easy.
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Mar 21, 2006 7:20 PM CST Married Twice or more??
highplains
highplainshighplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA127 Threads 4,288 Posts
Slowwwwww and easssyyyyyyyyy......that rings true in more ways than one....
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Mar 21, 2006 7:20 PM CST Married Twice or more??
highplains
highplainshighplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA127 Threads 4,288 Posts
Slowwwwww and easssyyyyyyyyy......that rings true in more ways than one....
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May 4, 2006 6:41 PM CST Married Twice or more??
Meilandra
MeilandraMeilandraEden Prairie, Minnesota USA25 Threads 1,186 Posts
Twice married and almost twice divorced for me... the second one was a lot better in some ways but just as bad or worse in others...

My second was HIS third, so you can see that didn't work out very well for him either...

:-p

I don't think I'd ever get married again, not sure what the point would be, especially with both my kids going off to college in the next four+ years, and me planning to move back to the southwest, where I'm from originally.
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May 4, 2006 6:51 PM CST Married Twice or more??
Meilandra
MeilandraMeilandraEden Prairie, Minnesota USA25 Threads 1,186 Posts
lol omg I could have written this!

:-p
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May 27, 2006 12:05 AM CST Married Twice or more??
ezgoinman007
ezgoinman007ezgoinman007Newark, California USA7 Threads 248 Posts
Hell... I'm havin a hard enough time gettin married for the first time! laugh
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May 27, 2006 12:11 AM CST Married Twice or more??
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
Don't be worrying about it rolling on the floor laughing

One marriage was enough for me, 23 years, don't intend going there a second time.

Do beleive it works for others second time around though.

devil
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May 27, 2006 12:32 AM CST Married Twice or more??
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
I'm beyond marriage at this point.

Absolutely no sense to it.

I'm a very fair person and very resonable. If I get hooked up with a long term partner I'll be sure to set her up with her own savings. If we should end up parting, she'll have hers and I'll have mine and we'll just part as friends.

No need to get all pissy about something that didn't work out. How stupid is that?

In fact, I would much rather have a business-type arrangement than a stupid marriage. Marriage is great for a young couple starting out who are planning on having kids and raising a family. I'm beyond that stuff. Life has a totally differnet meaning for me now. There's no need to marry if there's no kids involved.

And I sincerely believe that had I ever married it would have been forever. I can say that with confidence because the very reason that I didn't marry is because I never met a woman that I felt that way about. I mean that's the REASON that I never married. Get it?

So had I actually gotten married it would have been forever. Otherwise, why bother?
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May 27, 2006 12:37 AM CST Married Twice or more??
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Me too!!!

Never been married yet... engaged twice but that's as far as I get!!

But I only want to get married once ... so I guess that's a good thing!
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May 27, 2006 12:41 AM CST Married Twice or more??
RedHDeb1
RedHDeb1RedHDeb1Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada1 Threads 17 Posts
Married twice first time lived together 1 year married 3 and 1/2...second one lived together 3 years married 10...neither were great and both changed (not for the better) after we got married. Seems they felt they didn't have to try anymore....

So to say I will never get married again well never say never but its not high on my list of things to do....

Thinking I would prefer to live together....a piece of paper isn't going to make it last or better...

Just my thoughts: its ok for young couples that are planning on having children.
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May 27, 2006 1:35 AM CST Married Twice or more??
fcryan
fcryanfcryanlimerick, Limerick Ireland17 Threads 704 Posts
with you on that one... was engaged, was very young at the time, even though we had the boys it wasn't right... we'd of killed each other hehehehe..... only plan on doing it once, and once only....
fingers crossed.....to me when I make that commitment, and say those words i hope i can stand by them...(hopless Romantic at heart)peace peace peace
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