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Nov 22, 2007 6:18 PM CST It's Over
MusicEqualsLife
MusicEqualsLifeMusicEqualsLifeEdison, New Jersey USA19 Threads 3 Polls 448 Posts
as everyone may or may not know i was with a member on here. well he broke up with me and i am cryiung from the pain. sad thing is we had earlier planned to meet this weekend. even talked on the phone said i love you. then he erased me fully from his life. i got no answer at all i dk what happened in a few short hours. i dk who i hate more him for using and leading me on or myself for falling for him as strong asd i had. i went through this many times before now i know to give up on love fully. crying
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Nov 22, 2007 6:22 PM CST It's Over
76c3heater
76c3heater76c3heaterwest palm beach, USA28 Threads 1,512 Posts
Things don't always work out sweetz, and online is harder then out in real life I think because there are so many gaps to bridge. I know is sucks to hear and everyone says it but be patient and you will find him, trust me he's looking for you tocomfort
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Nov 22, 2007 6:23 PM CST It's Over
76c3heater
76c3heater76c3heaterwest palm beach, USA28 Threads 1,512 Posts
I know this sucks
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Nov 22, 2007 6:25 PM CST It's Over
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
The guy suddenly stopped talking to her! confused


Total madness, whatever happened to grown up adults expressing themselves? He could have at least said something to her.





doh
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Nov 22, 2007 6:25 PM CST It's Over
jgspain63
jgspain63jgspain63Malaga, Andalusia Spain7 Threads 471 Posts
I am so sorry, they must really have major issues to do this to nice ladies like yourself. confused dunno sigh
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Nov 22, 2007 6:30 PM CST It's Over
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
so very sorry, Music. People wonder why I am so cold. Well there is your answer. NO ONE will ever do that to me again.

I feel your pain and wish you the best!!kiss
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Nov 22, 2007 6:33 PM CST It's Over
MusicEqualsLife
MusicEqualsLifeMusicEqualsLifeEdison, New Jersey USA19 Threads 3 Polls 448 Posts
thanks. i really dk what happened. we were to meet for the first time on sat been talking for almost 3 months. he deleted his myspace, facebook, even seems changed his phone number and email. all in a space of a few hrs. it hurts a lot and now i dk if i can ever trust anyone again.
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Nov 22, 2007 6:35 PM CST It's Over
HvnsentBabs
HvnsentBabsHvnsentBabsDover, Delaware USA98 Posts
I am sorry you feeling the pain that you are right now. I know it isn't easy for you now. I wish you the best. I know when it comes to the heart being hurt it is much deeper than physcial pain. Take care hug
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Nov 22, 2007 6:38 PM CST It's Over
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
You were obviously too good for him and deep down he knew it.hug
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Nov 22, 2007 6:38 PM CST It's Over
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I am sorry this happened!!hug

He could have at least told you what was going on...not knowing why is hard to deal with.
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Nov 22, 2007 6:39 PM CST It's Over
DadofDucks
DadofDucksDadofDucksWentzville, Missouri USA9 Threads 2,123 Posts
the internet is a VERY fragil connection. Even in real life the phone goes out people are lost. Internet is even more frail and easliy lost. Internet is also easier to be deceptive and easier to erase people from our lives. It sucks and there are those who play with peoples emotions out there. Its a new predators playground we play in.
It will get better for you. One person should not dash all your hopes and dreams. Gve it time the pain will ease...
Be well...kiss hug hug
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Nov 22, 2007 6:43 PM CST It's Over
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
I'm lost. What's i dk!


dunno
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Nov 22, 2007 6:44 PM CST It's Over
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Don't know!doh
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Nov 22, 2007 6:52 PM CST It's Over
DadofDucks
DadofDucksDadofDucksWentzville, Missouri USA9 Threads 2,123 Posts
I thought you were going to bed...???devil hug sleep
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Nov 22, 2007 7:19 PM CST It's Over
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Oh! Yes you will! You are not the first ...you are not the last That's how life goes.


But try this perspective ...

He might have been a Jack the Ripper of a New Age ... during those three months he's got a chance to see what a wonderful person you are ... and has decided not to kill you. To let you go and be happy.

He might saved your life, girl!

Perk up and Rise hug
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Nov 22, 2007 7:22 PM CST It's Over
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
Damn im sorry hun, if you need anything just mail me, or post however you feel on here...

It will only get better with time...
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Nov 22, 2007 8:34 PM CST It's Over
MusicEqualsLife
MusicEqualsLifeMusicEqualsLifeEdison, New Jersey USA19 Threads 3 Polls 448 Posts
kind of an update. found out by accident he is back on here didn't take him long guess shows how little value i have sigh
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Nov 22, 2007 8:36 PM CST It's Over
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
blues

hug
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Nov 22, 2007 8:38 PM CST It's Over
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Hey never give up.. I really know how you feel I really do.. as long as you are alive there is always a chance.. sometimes things happen the way they do because what you thought was right wasn't and the one that is right is right there in front of you..comfort
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Nov 22, 2007 8:42 PM CST It's Over
KittenLove
KittenLoveKittenLoveSan Antonio, Texas USA1 Threads 37 Posts
*big hugs* comfort I have so much sympathy for you right now. I won't speak much on the subject in here, but if you ever need to talk feel free to e-mail me. Sometimes giving up on love seems like the best option, and perhaps it is, that's for you to decide.
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