Would you forgive your partner if they treated on you? (16)
ManethoPlymouth, Devon, England UK19 Threads 112 PostsI am a forgiving guy,
Would you forgive your partner if they "treated" on you?
I take it you mean "cheated" unless I got the wrong end of the stick
cheating: not sure that I could just as I wouldn't expect to be forgiven if I had been cheating (no matter how much I would want them to forgive me).
treated: depends on how I was being treated
I take it you mean "cheated" unless I got the wrong end of the stick
cheating: not sure that I could just as I wouldn't expect to be forgiven if I had been cheating (no matter how much I would want them to forgive me).
treated: depends on how I was being treated
I COULDNT FORGIVE CHEATING, KICK TO KERB, AND GO ON, I CAN FORGIVE MOST THINGS, BUT NOT THAT...
i agree with loopylove once the trust is broken forget it and move on
I think if your in a commited relationships where maybe kids are concerned like I was you have to sometimes forgive,its the forgetting and the trusting thats the hardest thing to do.Once the trust has gone its one of the hardest things to get back into the relationship.
you cant forgive even if there are children involved, thats no reason to go on with that partner just because there are children, u are not thinking of kids, the trust in the relationship has gone, so once that has gone u slip into not believing where they say they are or what they are doing so u argue and thats where the kids come into it, they are caught in middle, so unfair for people to do that, go sep ways and kids sometimes get the best of both worlds, instead of two people fighting all the time.
I apprecite your opinion loopy and I'm not with her now hence her being an ex,but I thought at the time the relationship deserved a second chance for the kids sake if nothing else,it wasn't as much the invidelity that really hurt it was the lying about it for me,but then everyones different on they're views about this topic.But it was definately the beginning of the end of the relationship for us I suppose the affair was just the final nail in the coffin,maybe if we'd seen things we're going wrong in the first place,but hindsight always a good thing after the fact isn't it.
it was only my opinion i was giving, yes hindsight is a good thing after the fact.
Having been there myself i think it rather depends on the circumstances, i forgave over and over again when my children were small. Did i trust him? heck no i didnt. In the end he walked and although i thought my life was over i was mistaken. Am i happy now? heck yes i am. LOL he should have walked years before.
Ive never been through that but i cant imagine the betrayel a partner must feel and the pain that ensues; my motto if not happy with any said partner move on but set them free first so they can find happyness elsewhere.
would i forgive it ummm doubt it would probably if i truely loved someone say okey i will let it go but first i must have a taste of what youve had then see if i still want you
[told you i was a rebel]whats good for them is good for you ,lol jade
would i forgive it ummm doubt it would probably if i truely loved someone say okey i will let it go but first i must have a taste of what youve had then see if i still want you
[told you i was a rebel]whats good for them is good for you ,lol jade
I have been through it, and it's an unbearable pain.
I would never forgive someone who cheated on me, nor would I expect to be forgiven. there is simply no excuse for it.
I would never cheat, as i know the pain it causes. If there are problems in a relationship, you should be open and talk about it, and hopefully work through it.
The foundation of any relationship is trust and communication, once the trust has gone i don't think it is ever possible to fully get it back. Nothing is ever the same.
I would never forgive someone who cheated on me, nor would I expect to be forgiven. there is simply no excuse for it.
I would never cheat, as i know the pain it causes. If there are problems in a relationship, you should be open and talk about it, and hopefully work through it.
The foundation of any relationship is trust and communication, once the trust has gone i don't think it is ever possible to fully get it back. Nothing is ever the same.
I have forgiven my ex partner, the person I lived with for 13 years but that doesn't mean I live with him again. I f we don't learn to forgive we carry a lot of hateful feelings around and that's not good for the mind or body! It wasn't easy to forgive and it didn't happen overnight but I weighed up everything and realised he had acted out of character!
Maybe... doubt I'd still be in a relationship with them though. Once the trust is broken it's gone for good IMO.
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