It's not a easy question that can easily be answered each person has their ideal mate. I personal hit the gym a lot but I don't like muscle bound women, I think she should be in shape but still soft. Perfect for me is all.
bajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados3,724 posts
Healthy, clean and somewhat fit. Having discovered first hand that added years do make a difference in how the body responds to exercise I have become more accepting of less honed physiques.
Don't know if testosterone makes it easier, but I have to work three times as hard to maintain well toned. Forget seriously ripped!
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