Question for you ladies... (13)

Nov 27, 2007 9:50 PM CST Question for you ladies...
Brew01
Brew01Brew01Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan Canada58 Threads 1,613 Posts
I have a question, I am very hopeful some of you ladies can shed some light on something for me.

Have you ever talked to a guy on here through this sites email, then after awhile, you ask for his email address so you can write him directly, and he gives it to you, but you never write him, and when he writes you on here to ask what happened, you don't bother even reading it ?

I know that must have sounded like a strange question, but the reason I asked is because that's happened to me several times now.
I talk to a woman, and after several talks, either she'll ask for my email address, or I'll say just write me at..and I give her my email address, then not only don't I hear from her, but even when I write her on here to ask what happened, she never even opens my letter.. I mean, what gives with that anyways ?

When we begin our talks, everything seems fine, and we have some fun, joking around and whatnot, then she gets my email address..and gone...

If you've ever done that to a guy before, would you please explain that to me, like, why would you do that ?

Seriously hoping to get some stright answers here..it's driving me somewhat crazy ( ok, in my case, crazier)
Nov 27, 2007 10:34 PM CST Question for you ladies...
tazmaninangel
tazmaninangeltazmaninangelEdmonton, Alberta Canada118 Threads 1 Polls 2,608 Posts
Honestly Brew I have no answer for you.

I have stopped replying to guys for various reasons. If a guy seems to pushy in wanting me to call him especially in the first few e-mails, I may not reply. It's rare for me to call someone anyway....and I rarely contact thru msn - I may sign onto it once a week. If I stop contact it's usually because there is nothing holding my interest.
If someone asks for your address then stops contact????? no idea. Why ask if you don't intend to use it.
E-mailing on this site and others is as easy as using your own private e-mail.
Nov 27, 2007 11:10 PM CST Question for you ladies...
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
Sorry that happened to you, but that is not what I would do. I cannot see why I would ask for a address and then not want to use it unless it was too see if you would give it to me.dunno dunno
Nov 27, 2007 11:39 PM CST Question for you ladies...
Brew01
Brew01Brew01Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan Canada58 Threads 1,613 Posts
Thanks ladies, yea Kitty, it doesn't make any bloody sense to me either

...women..go figure, huh laugh
Nov 30, 2007 1:58 PM CST Question for you ladies...
MotorMouth
MotorMouthMotorMouthLondon, Ontario Canada2 Threads 38 Posts
Well Im goign to be honest .. cause I do this all the time


either she was bored..and you were just there to write too .. And she felt OoO crap he might actually want to persue something

So she ignores it.. not wanting it to go any furhter then CS..

Or.... Its really a man from rusia..
Nov 30, 2007 2:57 PM CST Question for you ladies...
Dawn50
Dawn50Dawn50Ottawa Valley, Ontario Canada182 Threads 1,338 Posts
hello Brew wave

I have not experience that situation dunno

But I will add I think it is a coward way to just lead someone on then no reply confused After all we are all suppose to be adults doh

It is not difficult to type words and say "Sorry no interest in emailing"

Sorry to hear this is what happen to you! wine
Nov 30, 2007 4:03 PM CST Question for you ladies...
I understand what you are saying. I have had people asked me for my e-mail address also, and after a few writes, doesn't correspondd with me anymore. I think something in what you, or I have said may have been the key to what they were not looking for.
Nov 30, 2007 5:32 PM CST Question for you ladies...
Meandmydog
MeandmydogMeandmydogRegina, Saskatchewan Canada4 Posts
Hey dude, did you ever stop to think " If she can talk to me here, why would she want my email address?" Chances are, in my opinion, is that if they want you email address they probably want your money.The first thing this site says is not to give out your email address to people right away and to report them. There are lots of nice people here and the site is safe, but if the pattern is the same who knows.

I am not trying to be rude, just trying to help.

Good luck.handshake
Nov 30, 2007 5:37 PM CST Question for you ladies...
Meandmydog
MeandmydogMeandmydogRegina, Saskatchewan Canada4 Posts
motormouth is right, may be a dude in russia.::confused:
Feb 12, 2008 7:56 PM CST Question for you ladies...
bc_girl
bc_girlbc_girlsurrey, British Columbia Canada1 Posts
Unfortunatly many men and woman just want to chat to anyone, they are bored andare not serious about there intentions on sites like this.

Every one hears and complains about the games people play. and that it what this is to some while others like myself who is quite serious about maybe finding friendship beyond my home or work boundaries.

I love the opportunity to chat with maybe others like myself who have kids home and are unable to go out each evening or maybe dont like the bar scene and this is the ideal, safe way to maybe connect with someone special.

Hopefully you dont give up on your search to find that someone that IS out there. Time is precious to all of us, and hopefully one day the right one will be there for youcheering
Feb 13, 2008 6:41 AM CST Question for you ladies...
lisaann
lisaannlisaannhalifax, Nova Scotia Canada6 Threads 56 Posts
Men want to see a picture and because I don't put one up I usally don't here from them after a couple of emails.
Feb 13, 2008 6:55 AM CST Question for you ladies...
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
lisaann: Men want to see a picture and because I don't put one up I usally don't here from them after a couple of emails.


Not always true. I talked to a woman I met here for well over half a year before I had a clue what she looked like. Turns out she's one of the best friends I could have ever hoped to have met.wine
Feb 13, 2008 10:58 AM CST Question for you ladies...
lisaann
lisaannlisaannhalifax, Nova Scotia Canada6 Threads 56 Posts
kidatheart: Not always true. I talked to a woman I met here for well over half a year before I had a clue what she looked like. Turns out she's one of the best friends I could have ever hoped to have met.


thumbs up Thats nice because you can miss out on meeting good people by only looking at what's on the outside.
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