does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you? ( Archived) (17)

Nov 27, 2007 11:52 PM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
curefan
curefancurefanmount olive, Mississippi USA38 Threads 2 Polls 674 Posts
maybe sometimes we say ummm you know ummm i ummm you how i ummm she says yeah and then we go ummm you know doh
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Nov 27, 2007 11:55 PM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
DadofDucks
DadofDucksDadofDucksWentzville, Missouri USA9 Threads 2,123 Posts
Once its there I shout it to the world...I tell my kids every chance I get...when my lady comes Ill tell her every chance I get....

I dont rush into it, but when its there I tell everyone and tell them lots...hug

Thats just me...hug
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Nov 27, 2007 11:57 PM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
curefan
curefancurefanmount olive, Mississippi USA38 Threads 2 Polls 674 Posts
well said dadofducks!handshake
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Nov 28, 2007 1:22 AM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I will be very careful in how I use that word if I ever do again. I found it very easy to say those words to my ex. And I still "love" my ex. I am not IN LOVE with her anymore, though! I can not see myself ever again, in a situation, where I will tell someone I love them
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Nov 28, 2007 5:49 AM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
I have seen that a lot !!!!!!! Sometimes it can be regrets even if you do .. so eitherways .. its a gamble.dunno
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Nov 28, 2007 8:48 AM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
dougiew
dougiewdougiewaberdeen, UK52 Threads 629 Posts
i've never understood why it's even an issue. if you're in love with someone then you tell them. you might just make their day kiss
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Nov 28, 2007 8:53 AM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
loopylove
loopyloveloopylovebristol, Bristol, England UK9 Threads 429 Posts
Iknow alot of guys that openly tell loved ones that they love them,, most men are quite open with their feelings,,,wave
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Nov 28, 2007 8:55 AM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
AutumR
AutumRAutumRover looking a meadow, Louth Ireland14 Threads 883 Posts
~~~Those are some of the most precious words that we can say to another person. I believe in a romantic relationship they should only be said when it is "True" " Real" love.
If you're with someone that has said these words to everyone they've ever been in a relationship with...it takes away some of the value of these special words. JMO

Have a great day everyone.
wave
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Nov 28, 2007 9:08 AM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
singleinregina
singleinreginasingleinreginaRegina, Saskatchewan Canada56 Threads 928 Posts
my last relationship told me that she "loved" me after we had been together for about a month and it made me wonder....I knew there was a lot more to learn about her and I was sure she did not know me completely either...so how could she love me, she did not even truly know me?
I gave me pause to think how loosely some people toss those special words around, and I knew I wanted someone to know me a lot better before confessing to love me.

Love should be much deeper and come from a stronger base than just a little time.

head banger
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Nov 28, 2007 9:11 AM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
I have no problem showing affection or telling my lady (if I had one) how I feel...
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Nov 28, 2007 9:12 AM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
I love you is to easy to say actions speak volumes
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Nov 28, 2007 3:17 PM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
curefan
curefancurefanmount olive, Mississippi USA38 Threads 2 Polls 674 Posts
some good answers and interesting ones
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Nov 28, 2007 3:23 PM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
skippr
skipprskipprvacaville, USA454 Posts
I wouldn't have a problem telling the one person how I feel everyday.
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Nov 28, 2007 3:24 PM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
skippr
skipprskipprvacaville, USA454 Posts
Soooo True.thumbs up
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Nov 28, 2007 3:25 PM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
I say it all day every day to my children..

But I'm not so sure I would be willing to bandy it around elsewhere until I was 100% SURE that really WAS how I felt... that I wasn't mistaking the feeling for lust or a crush, that might just fizzle out.

I try to be vereeee careful with my heart.. laugh

Well.. and other peoples..

Throwing them (or yourself) into confusion is never a good thing... (IMO)

So to tell someone you love them.. and maybe you don't reeeeeally reeeeally *Love* them.. is quite damaging I think.
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Nov 28, 2007 3:26 PM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Yeah I agree with that Pilipala thumbs up
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Nov 28, 2007 9:54 PM CST does anybody think guys hold back to much when telling a woman i love you?
curefan
curefancurefanmount olive, Mississippi USA38 Threads 2 Polls 674 Posts
some guys think maybe there to tough to say it to a woman did anybody see the movie grease with john travolta?
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