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Dec 6, 2007 12:40 AM CST Looking for some advice from the ladies
Zooman
ZoomanZoomanBaltimore, Maryland USA1 Threads 1 Posts
Hi Gals:
I have two questions that I want to ask you about.
The first question is :
Do you like getting flowers on the first date or later ?
The second question is:
If you are in a loving relationship, and clicking good, how soon do you feel you want the guy to ask you to marry him ?

Thanks,
Zooman
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Dec 6, 2007 1:00 AM CST Looking for some advice from the ladies
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Surely, in both cases its a matter of personal preference? If you are looking for a rule of thumb, I don't think there is one.....
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Dec 6, 2007 1:02 AM CST Looking for some advice from the ladies
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
Flowers on the first date is great as long as it's not something over the top. As far as asking me to marry him that all depends on how I truly feel about him. When I look at him do I see the rest of my life? The second question is hard to answer.
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Dec 6, 2007 1:33 AM CST Looking for some advice from the ladies
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Flowers on a first date are a matter of protocol, and as such have little meaning. That question was fairly easy. The second, in all honesty, takes time and dating to know for sure.
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Dec 6, 2007 1:51 AM CST Looking for some advice from the ladies
The_NuttyTart
The_NuttyTartThe_NuttyTartexeter, Devon, England UK2 Threads 127 Posts
flowers on a first date are fine....just dont turn up with a big bunch...lol

and when to ask for marriage????....when it feels right
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Dec 6, 2007 2:40 AM CST Looking for some advice from the ladies
loopylove
loopyloveloopylovebristol, Bristol, England UK9 Threads 429 Posts
Its down to the indivdual, are they a flower person,for one...... As for how soon would they want u to ask them to marry them, well, there are a lot of people that get married soon after meeting, some go on for years and years and some fall flat on their face,,,, so really that relationship needs to be on a much stronger footing, dont u think?..........

(just so u know, roses, do it every time) hehehe

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Dec 6, 2007 2:53 AM CST Looking for some advice from the ladies
countrygirl62
countrygirl62countrygirl62Taylorsville, Utah USA13 Threads 2 Polls 545 Posts
I would like to get flowers after the date, to say " I had a great time, thinking about you, and would like to do it again"

Flowers before you get to know some one is kind of meaningless, to me anyway.

As for marriage, I think you both would know when the time is right. Maybe, talking about marriage, and the possibilities before you ask.

But, I am divorced.laugh so I have to give you a caveat on my advice.
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Dec 6, 2007 4:59 AM CST Looking for some advice from the ladies
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
I once received pickled onions and cheese on a first date. Now that might seem strange to some but i thought i was sweet as the guy had paid attention to past conversation when i said i liked them. As Rose said rule of thumb here. As for Marriage if it got to that stage surely it would have discussed sometime.
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Dec 6, 2007 8:02 AM CST Looking for some advice from the ladies
mime61
mime61mime61Summerville, SC, South Carolina USA10 Threads 1 Polls 339 Posts
Flowers are nice...maybe not on the first date..maybe a single rose would be good



marriage...at least a year...knock it around in a few conversations and see how it goes...big step!
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Dec 6, 2007 8:31 AM CST Looking for some advice from the ladies
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
knock it around in a few conversations and see how it goes...big step

SSHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Baby steps, baby steps..wink








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