what do single people think of single parents with children. (8)
seekinsanctaryportland, USA13 Threads 15 Postsjust wanting see what thoughts are out there, cuase sometimes it is hard to try to get some ones attention cause they might be afraid. tell me your thought's people. i think it this is a complex subject, course i could be wrong....
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Personally, I would prefer a man that already has children. If he is a significant part of their lives, he will have already learned patience and love. Single men who don't have children tend to have more selfish tendencies than fathers. The same goes for women. I had absolutely no patience before I had a child.
Hang in there seekin, there are good women out there!
Jeannie
Hang in there seekin, there are good women out there!
Jeannie
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This is a good one.
I have found that many women have children, and that is not a problem.
Yet being a single father does not work the same..
I found that "most" women want me to except that they have kids, but have a problem with the fact that I have them too.
My biggest problem is the way women treat and talk to there children. I want nothing to do with a woman that
can not talk to there kids like the blessing they are.
If you can talk to your kids that way, you will talk to me even worst....
I have found that many women have children, and that is not a problem.
Yet being a single father does not work the same..
I found that "most" women want me to except that they have kids, but have a problem with the fact that I have them too.
My biggest problem is the way women treat and talk to there children. I want nothing to do with a woman that
can not talk to there kids like the blessing they are.
If you can talk to your kids that way, you will talk to me even worst....
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good answer jonathon!
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i find the same thing with men...i couldn't even dream of someone being with me...that could speak to a child as being anything less than a beautiful individual who has the right to their own thoughts and feelings...
i don't do the whole "seen and not heard" thing...my kids have input into everything that happens in this house...and i listen to their feelings, before i make the final decision. and this pretty much is how we live...
my best friend is a single dad...he provides my children with a good male influence, and i his children with a female influence...so that neither of us worry about that. few men could compare to the loving father he is.
i don't do the whole "seen and not heard" thing...my kids have input into everything that happens in this house...and i listen to their feelings, before i make the final decision. and this pretty much is how we live...
my best friend is a single dad...he provides my children with a good male influence, and i his children with a female influence...so that neither of us worry about that. few men could compare to the loving father he is.
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i was a single parent for many years and understand the pressure it brings! my daughter has grown into womanhood and is one of the best people i know! being brought up in a single parent environment can have major advantages e.g. no arguments and bad atmospheres! don't know how your society stands, but in britain many young girls have children as a means to an end-getting housed etc-this is not great, when i hear them cursing at their little ones when the reality of parenthood kicks in! 2 sides to every story!
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good
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I will hang in/out with you too seekin.
I respect everyone, children or not, but will not limit myself to who I know and wish to meet...
I respect everyone, children or not, but will not limit myself to who I know and wish to meet...
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