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bshellcrzydeltona, Florida USA1 Threads 1 Postswhat is going on with all the liars? if ya dont have a lot say so, if you have a past that you are ashamed of but have redeemed yourself in the eyes of god say so. if youre poor say so. if you want a friend with benefits say so. if ya want a wife say so. if u live in a singlewide trailer say so. quit all the lying. real people attract real people!! i would sleep in a tent till my dying day with a man who truly loved me. there i just said so!!!
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"real people attract real people"
Well said! You sound open and straight forward and i'm sure you'll have no problem finding the 'real' one when the time is right!!!
It happens when you least expect it.
Well said! You sound open and straight forward and i'm sure you'll have no problem finding the 'real' one when the time is right!!!
It happens when you least expect it.
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The weather in Minnesota today would test your longevity along with your tent and sleeping bag!
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Pay attention to the forums.. plenty have said so...
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I don't have alot
I have a decent past but use to be ashamed of being bipolar, but not anymore
I am poor
do not want a friend with benefits
I want a wife
I live in a nice house
I am real
I don't own a tent
At least one person on here is being honest with you....
I am sorry you are having a tough time weeding through the BS on a dating site. Just remember one thing...we all have the same problem.
Hope you find what you are looking for!
I have a decent past but use to be ashamed of being bipolar, but not anymore
I am poor
do not want a friend with benefits
I want a wife
I live in a nice house
I am real
I don't own a tent
At least one person on here is being honest with you....
I am sorry you are having a tough time weeding through the BS on a dating site. Just remember one thing...we all have the same problem.
Hope you find what you are looking for!
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There are a lot of real people saying the real thing around here. Its just a matter of time till you learn to identify them.
Being frank is great.. but everyone doesnt find it easy to talk about their past so if you like them give them some room and time !!
Good Luck to you !!!
Being frank is great.. but everyone doesnt find it easy to talk about their past so if you like them give them some room and time !!
Good Luck to you !!!
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And having said so..you have more than many
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You is a cool chick to have such an attitude.
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"There are a lot of real people saying the real thing around here"
Could be but how sure can one be? Aren't the same people who want to be 'understood' and given time the same ones who will expect 'complete' honesty from others at all times?
Lies come in many ways. Decieving, misguiding or even leaving people out in the dark is all lies in some sense.
What i think is people should be at least ready to 'meet' someone when they come to a dating site. Everyone has pain but if it's going to come in the way of 'people getting to know each other' then they probably need their time out to heal first.
Could be but how sure can one be? Aren't the same people who want to be 'understood' and given time the same ones who will expect 'complete' honesty from others at all times?
Lies come in many ways. Decieving, misguiding or even leaving people out in the dark is all lies in some sense.
What i think is people should be at least ready to 'meet' someone when they come to a dating site. Everyone has pain but if it's going to come in the way of 'people getting to know each other' then they probably need their time out to heal first.
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The liars aren't going to jump up and wave their hands.
Sometimes when we get slighted or burned we need a bit of down time - but then we shake it off and move forward. The only true failure is to not try.
I look at it this way - I can only be me. If others want to play games with me & hurt me - in the long run - it hurts them more than me. Cuz I am awesome and they are missing out.
I don't have to tell anyone on here my financial status, about my upbringing or my secret desires . .
We share because we want to. Because that's who we are.
Btw- the phrase "pretty is as pretty does" isn't always true.
Have a great night, morning or evening (wherever you are).
Sometimes when we get slighted or burned we need a bit of down time - but then we shake it off and move forward. The only true failure is to not try.
I look at it this way - I can only be me. If others want to play games with me & hurt me - in the long run - it hurts them more than me. Cuz I am awesome and they are missing out.
I don't have to tell anyone on here my financial status, about my upbringing or my secret desires . .
We share because we want to. Because that's who we are.
Btw- the phrase "pretty is as pretty does" isn't always true.
Have a great night, morning or evening (wherever you are).
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hahaha well said you lady you
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Hmm.. i personally find it difficult to unravel ..
THE answer that i see to all the issues is Patience , Time and Communication .. it works !!
To have an affection meanwhile goes without saying.
THE answer that i see to all the issues is Patience , Time and Communication .. it works !!
To have an affection meanwhile goes without saying.
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Trust me with bad communication or 'None', affection is only but a dream and too much to expect all the same!
Without communication one can only 'arouse' misunderstandings, ambiguity, distrust, discomfort, and insensitivity.
Whatever happened to simple but effective words like " Something's going on with me and i'm not in a position to talk about it, please try to understand 'this much' " ???
Communication is the key to success and most issues that normally arise out of situations, are normally brought about by this one underlying problem, 'lack or no communication'
Without communication one can only 'arouse' misunderstandings, ambiguity, distrust, discomfort, and insensitivity.
Whatever happened to simple but effective words like " Something's going on with me and i'm not in a position to talk about it, please try to understand 'this much' " ???
Communication is the key to success and most issues that normally arise out of situations, are normally brought about by this one underlying problem, 'lack or no communication'
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Fear...of rejection at an early stage...the potential suitor might move on to somebody else after having been put off or just overwhelmed.
Fear makes us do stupid things...like forget that honesty is incredibly attractive when combined with other good qualities!
Fear makes us do stupid things...like forget that honesty is incredibly attractive when combined with other good qualities!
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If you hang around here for awhile on CS you can figure out a lot about people. Most people take mental notes of comments they like or dislike.
You just have to piece the puzzle together.
(note, I'm not looking :)
You just have to piece the puzzle together.
(note, I'm not looking :)
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Communiction is the key with patience and affection is my take on my issues usually..
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Yup...you have it in one. That need for approval can really do strange things to otherwise very sensible people.
A flaw in a person is just another oppurtunity to love and show love and compassion.
But unless we've learned that this is so, or experienced this in our upbringing, it can be tough to reason this way.
A flaw in a person is just another oppurtunity to love and show love and compassion.
But unless we've learned that this is so, or experienced this in our upbringing, it can be tough to reason this way.
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