Why Is It When A Guy Likes You.... ( Archived) (50)

Dec 14, 2007 4:01 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
And you only had 1 date with him, but you don't see him again for a month or so??? Doesn't this waste your time??

Well, it's wasting mine. He likes me a lot and likes to see me again, but I'm like "when?!", because now it's been a damn month!!! I'm pretty much given up. It's like starting ALLLLL over again with that person, if he does see me again. He's put off about 3-4 dates, because something just keeps "coming up" with him where he lives...I'm tired of games and don't want to play them anymore. I have been for 4 years now, with these men, and I'm tired of it. No wonder I hardly go on dates anymore and don't care...
frustrated very mad roll eyes uh oh mumbling
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Dec 14, 2007 4:01 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
Been there! I wish I understood them!
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Dec 14, 2007 4:03 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
He's a FOOL, forget him you deserve better. reindeer
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Dec 14, 2007 4:06 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
hug

... sounds like he is not "free" and like he doesn't deserve you ...

I'm sorry it's probably not what you wanted to hear sigh

hug
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Dec 14, 2007 4:06 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
actions speak louder than words....hug
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Dec 14, 2007 4:06 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
uh

wow


timing
consistency

do you make this stuff up?
or confuse us w/ another site?

you are so...

i dont even know how to describe..
perplexing?


comfort
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Dec 14, 2007 4:08 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i dunno,
words have some pertinent information sometimes

its a month its a week
its i left him in a ditch cuz he was a jerk

its a year
6 months
one month

i just cant follow

youre right
in such case i shouldnt even be in here

scuse the ring
super
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Dec 14, 2007 4:11 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
ericthall
ericthallericthallAsheville, USA7 Threads 1,284 Posts
hmmmmconfused

how long did it take him to convince you to go out on the first date????
Not a judgement just a thought.

how often have you two talked in the past and even now has that ended or expanded in time?

haven't you thought about asking him if you could come to where he is and involve yourself in the time he does have open...?

again not a judgement just a thought wondering if there may be some indicators of whether it is feasable to continue or to say
"I'am sorry but i have another "friend" that has shown some interest in being with me."

Sometimes we need to look at the whole picture... and if you feel he is not worth the effort to try and make it work(time together) then it may not be worthy of worry either.
JMO
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Dec 14, 2007 4:17 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
HIS actions, not her's silly girlrolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 14, 2007 4:20 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i understand princess
i was however responding to her actions
regarding posting all over the map

just ... not consistent
hard to understand when considered as a whole
but yet and still
always receives sympathy

i just am observing
its interesting

dunno
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Dec 14, 2007 4:23 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
comfort I'm only a part timer here, so I haven't been privy to her territory, or maybe I'm just not observant enough.......the poor me threads are popular now a days...wait til the Holiday season is over with.......

Then comes Valentines Day---the poor me threads will multiply by 100rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 14, 2007 4:26 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
dogsrule
dogsruledogsruleSomewhere, Massachusetts USA16 Threads 1 Polls 435 Posts
sounds like he is either really busy or not interested if he only sees you 1xa month. If he was into you, he would be all over you, calling you...
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Dec 14, 2007 4:27 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
No, that's cool. I think you are right, though...Thanks...I don't think he's ever free. When he is, it's with his stupid band buddies or some "gig"...Whatever...Not my thing...
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Dec 14, 2007 4:28 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
EXACTLY!!! THANK YOU!! MY POINT EXACTLY...SHEEESH!!!
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Dec 14, 2007 4:29 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
I thought you said in another thread that you were buying a dog after christmas and giving men up for a year anyway..confused
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Dec 14, 2007 4:29 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
With guys, actions do speak louder than words. It's like they just can't say they are not interested.

I was getting ready to go out with one guy for the second time when he called and said his mother was sick. That was 2 years ago.
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Dec 14, 2007 4:29 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
thumbs up

poor me poor me pour me another drink

have you heard of singles appreciation day?
its the answer to valentines day?
no kidding its a real thing

too bad they didnt choose a better abbreviation

rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 14, 2007 4:30 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
I waa trying to message you, but you do not accept outside your own area
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Dec 14, 2007 4:37 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
Yeah, I was and I'm still going to get a dog, but I thought I give it another try...What the heck, you know...Giving up easy is not in my blood and I know better than that, I won't...sorry...I just don't give up to easy. I stop for a while and then I'm like "got to face it sometime, so why not now?" Can't hide forever...
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Dec 14, 2007 4:38 PM CST Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
What the hell. I'll just pour me one tonight...Yeah, I'm going out tonight and have the best time in my life...What the heck, huh???head banger
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