And you only had 1 date with him, but you don't see him again for a month or so??? Doesn't this waste your time??
Well, it's wasting mine. He likes me a lot and likes to see me again, but I'm like "when?!", because now it's been a damn month!!! I'm pretty much given up. It's like starting ALLLLL over again with that person, if he does see me again. He's put off about 3-4 dates, because something just keeps "coming up" with him where he lives...I'm tired of games and don't want to play them anymore. I have been for 4 years now, with these men, and I'm tired of it. No wonder I hardly go on dates anymore and don't care...
how long did it take him to convince you to go out on the first date???? Not a judgement just a thought.
how often have you two talked in the past and even now has that ended or expanded in time?
haven't you thought about asking him if you could come to where he is and involve yourself in the time he does have open...?
again not a judgement just a thought wondering if there may be some indicators of whether it is feasable to continue or to say "I'am sorry but i have another "friend" that has shown some interest in being with me."
Sometimes we need to look at the whole picture... and if you feel he is not worth the effort to try and make it work(time together) then it may not be worthy of worry either. JMO
I'm only a part timer here, so I haven't been privy to her territory, or maybe I'm just not observant enough.......the poor me threads are popular now a days...wait til the Holiday season is over with.......
Then comes Valentines Day---the poor me threads will multiply by 100
No, that's cool. I think you are right, though...Thanks...I don't think he's ever free. When he is, it's with his stupid band buddies or some "gig"...Whatever...Not my thing...
Yeah, I was and I'm still going to get a dog, but I thought I give it another try...What the heck, you know...Giving up easy is not in my blood and I know better than that, I won't...sorry...I just don't give up to easy. I stop for a while and then I'm like "got to face it sometime, so why not now?" Can't hide forever...
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Well, it's wasting mine. He likes me a lot and likes to see me again, but I'm like "when?!", because now it's been a damn month!!! I'm pretty much given up. It's like starting ALLLLL over again with that person, if he does see me again. He's put off about 3-4 dates, because something just keeps "coming up" with him where he lives...I'm tired of games and don't want to play them anymore. I have been for 4 years now, with these men, and I'm tired of it. No wonder I hardly go on dates anymore and don't care...