lenababiOPSanta Barbara, California USA1,746 posts
When i first got out of high school i was w/ this guy and we'd get into the nastiest fights to the point of things breaking but somehow we'd always end up in bed right after. After a while it got to be too much and I didn't wanna live like that the rest of my life and if i didn't get out then i was afraid i would.
well i was in a 4 year relationship where i knew her and i was not compatible but it had went so long and she had a child by her x husband which i had raised since he was a baby .. so staying there with her come more as a job than a realtionship. I took care of the house and watch her kid to make her career stronger which it did but i was still left there with the kid.which i grew to love and care for as like being my own. Her x husband would not put any effort to see or take care of him at all at the time .. than one day he became smarter and wanted to see his son more. which i had no problem with this, but as time went on she and i went our seperate ways she was later to be found out she was telling me many lies and she had many issues was never brought on the table. than he became father of the year .. i moved away she went to her party ways he now has the kid. and they wont let me see him .I spent 4 years of my life improving her situations and mine just got worst. so what i would say did happen to me since this i have a grand trust issue of about anyone. So tough for me to trust someone seeing in my eyes i will get hurt again.. true enough everyone gets hurt now and than but when you lose someone you know cares and that person has no control over it , because of someone elses stupidity it does make you think..
your obviously a very decent person... can't say the same for her.. feel sorry for her...she's gonna wake up one day when she has nobody left to party with (when they've all grown up) and have to face the empty selfish person that she is....
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Did it change you? Did you start doing things you wouldn't normally do?