Virgin ( Archived) (26)

I´m a little bit confused.

A few minutes ago, I have read a story about a 43 years old guy who is still a virgin. He has meet a nice lady with help from a dating agency. They liked another very much, but after telling her, that he is a virgin she leaves him. For she was it not possible to handle this.

OK, I know it is very unusual to be with 43 still a virgin. But for me isn't it determining for a relationship. For me is this not a case to leave a great partner. JMO

I have a good friend and she is 27 and still a virgin. And she isn´t uptight. She had a few partners and she had also s*xual experiences but not the real "copulation". And btw, she discusses about sexuality very open.

Whar are you think? Which age is ok to be virgin. And which age is it not?

How would you react if you meet a nice guy or gal in your age, and she/he tells you, that he/ she is a virgin?

I don't care.

Never thought about it

I don't think a virgin would like me though.

Good point.

Yes, I think also that it is a little bit weird. And with every years it is getting more weird.


But I think it is not the only point in choosing a partner.

And there is the question why he is still a virgin. Or she. JMO

Why?????????

i've known many "late in life virgin"s .....it was a religious preference for some and a "cleanliness" preference for others.

i think what a person chooses to do with their virginity is up to them and no matter the age it's alright.

if they tell me they are a virgin doesn't really matter to me.......most likely if they are a virgin and interested in me, my not being one is a put off for them

either way...we all make life choices and i don't look badly on anyone for theirs

I see it as same like you.

If I meet someone and he tells me that he is virgin, my first look would be a little bit confused. But it isn´t a case to break. It is more important how a person is, not how much sex he had in his life.

OK,although a 50 years old virgin is just a little bit weird, but this dosn´t make him a badder human. JMO

When I was a teen, I went out with some virgins. Two of them got to the point of wanting to be s*xual. Because of my downstairs obesity, I was not able to make the proper insertions. When they told me that it hurt, I quit trying. I remained a virgin until after age 18, and I hooked up with a girl that had children already. Aaaaaah finally I fit in!

the real question is: What are the odds??. Although having lived in Germany, I don't know what the statistics are on this issue. (I had not heard of any virgin under 16, or 18 tops, when I used to live there in the 80s)

But in this country, the odds of meeting a Virgin in their 40s is probably one in 5 million.

Frohe Weinachten, my dear

By the guy was the problem, that he is Farmer and has living alone with his mother on the farm.

Now the mother is dead and he fells very alone.

I think he is a mothers son.

BTW, my friend is still virgin, because she had in her youth a bad experiences. And she hasn´t also a problem with telling this others.

She though, if she meets the right all will be no problem.

I for myself think, that this is the right attitude.

And btw, for the passionate and h*rny of the guy, maybe he has save all for the one moment. 43 years of pent-up emotions.

Yes, it is very rarely to meet a virgin which is about 16 years old here in Germany.

But there are a few. And I for myself dosn´t think that it is so bad to stay virgin for a longer age as 18. JMO

Frohe Weihnachten dir auch.

43 years of pent up emotions and frustration could be deadly for the woman when he unloads his weapon

OK, that was also the cause that this woman has leaving him. She was afraid about her life.

It might be fun to break him in. He might be a beast by the time he finds out what it's like~