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Dec 22, 2007 9:58 AM CST Virgin
Fellfrosch
FellfroschFellfroschLeipzig, Saxony Germany160 Threads 6 Polls 1,049 Posts
I´m a little bit confused.

A few minutes ago, I have read a story about a 43 years old guy who is still a virgin. He has meet a nice lady with help from a dating agency. They liked another very much, but after telling her, that he is a virgin she leaves him. For she was it not possible to handle this.

OK, I know it is very unusual to be with 43 still a virgin. But for me isn't it determining for a relationship. For me is this not a case to leave a great partner. JMO

I have a good friend and she is 27 and still a virgin. And she isn´t uptight. She had a few partners and she had also s*xual experiences but not the real "copulation". And btw, she discusses about sexuality very open.

Whar are you think? Which age is ok to be virgin. And which age is it not?

How would you react if you meet a nice guy or gal in your age, and she/he tells you, that he/ she is a virgin?
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Dec 22, 2007 10:00 AM CST Virgin
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA100 Threads 8 Polls 7,200 Posts
I don't care.
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Dec 22, 2007 10:02 AM CST Virgin
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA319 Threads 14 Polls 9,166 Posts
Never thought about it dunno
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Dec 22, 2007 10:06 AM CST Virgin
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK37 Threads 5 Polls 10,047 Posts
I would also run a mile if someone of my age (46) told me they were still a virgin.

I like to be with someone who knows what they are doing sexually devil

As for the age thing, I would say if someone is still a virgin in their 20s.. then it's weird JMO.


cold
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Dec 22, 2007 10:08 AM CST Virgin
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA100 Threads 8 Polls 7,200 Posts
I don't think a virgin would like me though.

elephant
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Dec 22, 2007 10:13 AM CST Virgin
Fellfrosch
FellfroschFellfroschLeipzig, Saxony Germany160 Threads 6 Polls 1,049 Posts
Good point.

Yes, I think also that it is a little bit weird. And with every years it is getting more weird.


But I think it is not the only point in choosing a partner.

And there is the question why he is still a virgin. Or she. JMO
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Dec 22, 2007 10:13 AM CST Virgin
Fellfrosch
FellfroschFellfroschLeipzig, Saxony Germany160 Threads 6 Polls 1,049 Posts
Why?????????
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Dec 22, 2007 10:15 AM CST Virgin
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA37 Threads 3 Polls 4,307 Posts
i've known many "late in life virgin"s .....it was a religious preference for some and a "cleanliness" preference for others.

i think what a person chooses to do with their virginity is up to them and no matter the age it's alright.

if they tell me they are a virgin doesn't really matter to me.......most likely if they are a virgin and interested in me, my not being one is a put off for themdunno

either way...we all make life choices and i don't look badly on anyone for theirshandshake
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Dec 22, 2007 10:20 AM CST Virgin
Fellfrosch
FellfroschFellfroschLeipzig, Saxony Germany160 Threads 6 Polls 1,049 Posts
I see it as same like you. handshake

If I meet someone and he tells me that he is virgin, my first look would be a little bit confused. But it isn´t a case to break. It is more important how a person is, not how much sex he had in his life.

OK,although a 50 years old virgin is just a little bit weird, but this dosn´t make him a badder human. JMO
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Dec 22, 2007 10:20 AM CST Virgin
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK37 Threads 5 Polls 10,047 Posts
Yes, it's more the reasons behind why they are still a virgin especially if they are in their 40s. (Not your friend I mean the 43 year old guy on the dating site)

I secretly think he can't be all very passionate and h*rny devil if he's not bothered to have made sure he had sex in his 43 years.
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Dec 22, 2007 10:21 AM CST Virgin
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA100 Threads 8 Polls 7,200 Posts
When I was a teen, I went out with some virgins. Two of them got to the point of wanting to be s*xual. Because of my downstairs obesity, I was not able to make the proper insertions. When they told me that it hurt, I quit trying. I remained a virgin until after age 18, and I hooked up with a girl that had children already. Aaaaaah finally I fit in!
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Dec 22, 2007 10:24 AM CST Virgin
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK37 Threads 5 Polls 10,047 Posts
That's another reason which would put me off the "cleanliness" thing.

I like my men to play dirrty laugh


cool
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Dec 22, 2007 10:26 AM CST Virgin
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA24 Threads 2 Polls 6,726 Posts
the real question is: What are the odds??. Although having lived in Germany, I don't know what the statistics are on this issue. (I had not heard of any virgin under 16, or 18 tops, when I used to live there in the 80s)

But in this country, the odds of meeting a Virgin in their 40s is probably one in 5 million.

Frohe Weinachten, my dear santa waving christmas happy
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Dec 22, 2007 10:27 AM CST Virgin
Fellfrosch
FellfroschFellfroschLeipzig, Saxony Germany160 Threads 6 Polls 1,049 Posts
By the guy was the problem, that he is Farmer and has living alone with his mother on the farm.

Now the mother is dead and he fells very alone.

I think he is a mothers son.

BTW, my friend is still virgin, because she had in her youth a bad experiences. And she hasn´t also a problem with telling this others.

She though, if she meets the right all will be no problem.

I for myself think, that this is the right attitude.

And btw, for the passionate and h*rny of the guy, maybe he has save all for the one moment. 43 years of pent-up emotions. grin
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Dec 22, 2007 10:31 AM CST Virgin
Fellfrosch
FellfroschFellfroschLeipzig, Saxony Germany160 Threads 6 Polls 1,049 Posts
Yes, it is very rarely to meet a virgin which is about 16 years old here in Germany.

But there are a few. And I for myself dosn´t think that it is so bad to stay virgin for a longer age as 18. JMO

Frohe Weihnachten dir auch.santa waving
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Dec 22, 2007 10:32 AM CST Virgin
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA319 Threads 14 Polls 9,166 Posts
43 years of pent up emotions and frustration could be deadly for the woman when he unloads his weapon rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 22, 2007 10:33 AM CST Virgin
Fellfrosch
FellfroschFellfroschLeipzig, Saxony Germany160 Threads 6 Polls 1,049 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

OK, that was also the cause that this woman has leaving him. She was afraid about her life. rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 22, 2007 10:36 AM CST Virgin
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA230 Threads 9 Polls 27,698 Posts
It might be fun to break him in. He might be a beast by the time he finds out what it's like~dunno
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Dec 22, 2007 10:36 AM CST Virgin
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK37 Threads 5 Polls 10,047 Posts
Oooh, Yes, he could be like a 43 year old timebomb waiting to explode into a sexbomb smile

Ah well, good luck to them both anyway, your friend and also the 43 year old guy from the dating site santa waving
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Dec 22, 2007 10:36 AM CST Virgin
dogsrule
dogsruledogsruleSomewhere, Massachusetts USA18 Threads 1 Polls 557 Posts
I would be afraid at 47 a guy being a virgin.. why was he still? Does he have deep seated issues? Mommy's boy? I wouldnt run but I would be very sketchy in meeting someone like this.. Doesnt seem normal..
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