FRUSTRATED WITH THE EX (8)
Got a head ache! good night!
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Awe...
I understand the ex thing sweetie.
Mind just forgets his priorities from time to time.
(our son)
Guess that's what comes when a new woman is involved
and her child. Not playing it down by no means. But I'm sure
I'm not alone. Regardless my son has me and that is plenty enough.
For sure! Hugz hon...
I understand the ex thing sweetie.
Mind just forgets his priorities from time to time.
(our son)
Guess that's what comes when a new woman is involved
and her child. Not playing it down by no means. But I'm sure
I'm not alone. Regardless my son has me and that is plenty enough.
For sure! Hugz hon...
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Thanks, I am better today. He is just playing games, I need to realize!
Happy Days Are Here Again!!
Happy Days Are Here Again!!
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Isn't it nice when we wake up the next day and things seem clearer and we can take a look at things in a better light? Each day will get better for you dear. True colors do show eventually.
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Maybe as a man I can give you some insight into the male mind as I know my own mind.
Why does he talk to your daughter and not to you?
He's afraid to talk to you because he doesn't want to get into an argument or have you yell at him or have you throw the past up in his face or risk being rejected if his goal is to get you back.
He talks to your daughter because she's safe.
Does he still love you and want you back?
Yes and Yes.
Why would he want you back now after all these years?
Because he has learned that the grass is not greener and he has come to realize that what he had and lost he will probably never find again.
He is making a classic mistake by talking to your daughter and not to you. Very common thing for divorced parents to do.
What to do?
Get word to him in no uncertain terms that if he has anything to say to or about you to say it to you and not your daughter. For her sake, you guys need to work out a way whereby you can communicate because you have something very precious in common.
Look within yourself and ask do I still feel love for this man?
Do I want him back? If the answer is no, tell him so he doesn't keep hoping. You both will have more peace.
Merry Christmas
Why does he talk to your daughter and not to you?
He's afraid to talk to you because he doesn't want to get into an argument or have you yell at him or have you throw the past up in his face or risk being rejected if his goal is to get you back.
He talks to your daughter because she's safe.
Does he still love you and want you back?
Yes and Yes.
Why would he want you back now after all these years?
Because he has learned that the grass is not greener and he has come to realize that what he had and lost he will probably never find again.
He is making a classic mistake by talking to your daughter and not to you. Very common thing for divorced parents to do.
What to do?
Get word to him in no uncertain terms that if he has anything to say to or about you to say it to you and not your daughter. For her sake, you guys need to work out a way whereby you can communicate because you have something very precious in common.
Look within yourself and ask do I still feel love for this man?
Do I want him back? If the answer is no, tell him so he doesn't keep hoping. You both will have more peace.
Merry Christmas
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my heart goes out to you v difficult situation.. particularly as it makes it too messy to have an 'amicable' relationship, which is always preferable from kids point of view... it could be that he feels guilt and want to show himself in a better light... less of a bad guy...
I wish u all the best and hope u can work it out... particularly for you daughter :hugs:
I wish u all the best and hope u can work it out... particularly for you daughter :hugs:
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WTF
I tell my daughter that I am glad he has a nice relationship, since we do not talk, that I am glad for him.
He never said s**, how you doing, merry christmas, fo and die, nothing. Then at the air port he tells my daughter that he loves me, and to tell me it is not serious. Whatever. Why does he talk to my daughter?? it is all fu!
Needless to say I am trying to have a lasting relationship with some body!! I have yet to have, but he is not helping my 18 year old face reality that her mother needs to MOVE ON!!
rrrh fu****k!!
It just ticks me off, and even hurts
Look, if you it don't work out, then be gracefull!! BACK OFF!
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