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Dec 27, 2007 6:54 PM CST help quick
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
i met this guy on line, another cite, and he had a pic up where he looked pretty good, now he has another pic up and he isn't terrible, but not the slightest bit attractive to me, not my type at all, we are supposed to go out saturday...how do i get out of it gracefully...i know i seem shallow, but i don't want to lead this guy on, and i don't want to date someone i just don't find the least bit appealing...

assistance please!!!!!
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Dec 27, 2007 6:55 PM CST help quick
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Tell him your story about your gay pets!!laugh
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Dec 27, 2007 6:55 PM CST help quick
kevduf
kevdufkevdufColumbia, Missouri USA7 Threads 1,386 Posts
Say you are washing your hair. laugh
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Dec 27, 2007 6:56 PM CST help quick
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
Meet him and take it from there, could be a bad hairday pic... laugh
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Dec 27, 2007 6:56 PM CST help quick
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
would u go for that? dunno
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Dec 27, 2007 6:57 PM CST help quick
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Seriously, why don't you come out and ask him why his picture is so different? Lack of trust is a good enough reason to break a date...
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Dec 27, 2007 6:57 PM CST help quick
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Go out you never know; maybe he just isn't photogeniclaugh
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Dec 27, 2007 6:58 PM CST help quick
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
no it's a bad all over day...one pic he looked mid 30ish...dark hair... the new pic...he looks 50ish, gray hair and growing a good shed over his tool
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Dec 27, 2007 6:58 PM CST help quick
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Just be honest and tell him you have been thinking and changed your mind...You're not as ready to go out on a date with anyone as you thought you were and have decided to wait!!!!!!!

I dunno...Maybe it's not ALLLLLLL that honest!!!!!!!!


roll eyes laugh confused grin
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Dec 27, 2007 6:58 PM CST help quick
kevduf
kevdufkevdufColumbia, Missouri USA7 Threads 1,386 Posts
He doesn't have a choice. You make the decision to go out or not. You don't owe him anything if you don't fell like going, right?
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Dec 27, 2007 6:59 PM CST help quick
OverTheWindow
OverTheWindowOverTheWindowChicago, Paris, Marseille, Illinois USA6 Threads 1 Polls 635 Posts
thumbs up But take care anyway...wink
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Dec 27, 2007 7:00 PM CST help quick
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
i know as shallow as i seem with not wanting to go out with him after seeing the new pic..i don't like to hurt anyone's feelings...dunno
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Dec 27, 2007 7:01 PM CST help quick
technoguy
technoguytechnoguyborehamwood london, UK10 Threads 161 Posts
it happens
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Dec 27, 2007 7:02 PM CST help quick
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Well, look if he gives you the creeps rolling on the floor laughing I don't advise you to go out; however if it's just an attraction dillema, and obviously you found him attractive at first you ought to meet him in person JMOdrink pouring
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Dec 27, 2007 7:03 PM CST help quick
kevduf
kevdufkevdufColumbia, Missouri USA7 Threads 1,386 Posts
Yeah, that's understandable, but why waste your time? You don't have to be cruel, just honest.
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Dec 27, 2007 7:04 PM CST help quick
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
i can't understand the diff in the pics... he went from cutie...to his fatter father...blues
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Dec 27, 2007 7:04 PM CST help quick
zira9888
zira9888zira9888newport, Isle of Wight, England UK104 Posts
yes i go with this, just ask him out right, if hes not showing you true picture and your supposed to meet him, hell, god knows who will turn up !! good luck, and ask...xcomfort
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Dec 27, 2007 7:07 PM CST help quick
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
so you all think i should ask why there is such a big diff in the pics?
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Dec 27, 2007 7:07 PM CST help quick
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
I seelaugh rolling on the floor laughing in that case you might want to consider a raincheck.
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Dec 27, 2007 7:08 PM CST help quick
kevduf
kevdufkevdufColumbia, Missouri USA7 Threads 1,386 Posts
Yes.
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