alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
I like it either way, as long as I want to be chased. I have been the first one to contact, and then if I'm responded to fine, if not, who cares. I also get a great ego boost when someone contacts me first, so it really makes me no difference. Eventually though, the chase should end. I don't understand men or women who just like the chase, it's a lot of work!
If you wake up hungry do you wait alone in hopes someone will deliver sustenance?
Human history is simple really on this level...
Scavengers Hunters Gatherers Conquerors Tyrants
We just need to choose the one closest to our hearts, with 6 billion people there is someone for each of us. If we both wait then dust shall we return to alone with nothing to leave behind as a legacy to the earth and societies that birthed us. Absolute failure.
It's rather odd, but a gal I dated a few years ago looked me up about a month ago and wished me a happy birthday. Since then she's been calling me every day. We go out about twice a week and she stops by somewhat regularly. While I wouldn't say she's chasing me...I'm not chasing her.
The interesting part was that she thought the grass might be greener on the other side of the fence a few years ago. I think she found too many cow pies....
This time it seems to be working in a lot of ways...but we shall see. I'm not going to start bragging by any means~~~
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Women, prefer to play the genteel damsel and wait for the men to wescoo you from lonliness?
Please be honest and as open as you can...maybe we can all learn something...even you Indy.