The world as we know it is a sick place, with demented people everywhere. I wasn't upset because I told her what my history was. I was honest and forthcoming with it because a relationship will not work with skeletons in the closet. And really it's just a smart thing to do these days.
While I, personally have never "googled" anyone I was interested in, when I was first getting to know my wife -- Whom I met HERE -- one of the first things I did was give her my full name and invite her to google ME. (Thank goodness the prison record didn't show up!) (I'm KIDDING!)
Seems to me that honesty is everything and inviting someone to check your background is just another way to prove your sincerety, especially in the day and age of electronic anonymity and internet scams.
zira9888newport, Isle of Wight, England UK104 Posts
zira9888newport, Isle of Wight, England UK104 posts
how on earth do you google someone, I tried to google myself..lol sad ah...but only came up with a country singer,an artist, and a business owner, and a singer im not haha,or any of the others.. would i need to do a deeper search as those people werent m at all. help, im learning pc still lol.....HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL......
I myself have never really checked them out but since I know 3 ladies personally that have died from meeting men on blind dates I will call it. I have became alittle scared these days on meeting someone. So before I go on a blind date I will ask the guy what kind of vechile he has so I know what to look for and his license plate so it is easier to pick his vechile out incase there are others there like it and I all ready have his full name and I carry my cell phone and have people call me through out the night to make sure I am ok and still alive and if by chance I disappear than all this info that I have all ready given to someone else before going out will be able to at least give it to the police and hopefully it would be a good enough lead to catch the guy.
zira9888newport, Isle of Wight, England UK104 Posts
zira9888newport, Isle of Wight, England UK104 posts
oh , this is becoming more scarey each time i hear about things that happen, all we want is to find new friends who understand what its like in our situation, and maybe, just maybe we can find someone to love and be loved by..and its damaged by this hanging over us...I just want to love, live, laugh, and share it...so best we al be really carefull, please take care all of you...listen to warnings please...
Well it is a scarry situation for men as well as it is for women even though I have knewn the 3 women personally, I also knew of one I knew her sister and she got killed meeting some guy but, I also know of one guy that met a women in a hotel in a town a few hours away from me he got killed and she disappeared into thin air.
I try to think positive when going out to meet someone new and I pray alot
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