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Jan 4, 2008 3:25 PM CST So...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
...you we're all looking for 'the one', our soulmate...well, some of us anyway.

At what point do you let your heart have a free reign to guide you in the relationship?

I try to be as rational as possible initially...give myself a chance to appraise the situation and distinguish various factors. Once I'm kinda certain of the potential for something good, I let my control go...allow my heart much more say in how things go.

What about you?wine
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Jan 4, 2008 3:28 PM CST So...
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
thumbs up likewise.... wine
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Jan 4, 2008 3:28 PM CST So...
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I am stupid...I am one to jump right in with both feet.

But I have realized I can't do that anymore...
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Jan 4, 2008 3:30 PM CST So...
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
very brave of you!!.. although things don't always work out.. this outlook is more likely to produce lasting love that my more reserved approach cheers hug
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Jan 4, 2008 3:30 PM CST So...
girlnextdormouse
girlnextdormousegirlnextdormouseMarietta, Ohio USA34 Threads 544 Posts
My heart and brain are pretty well in sync and in agreement on most issues, so I seldom run the risk of emotion and logic being on seperate pages.
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Jan 4, 2008 3:31 PM CST So...
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
what the hell nothing ventured nothing gained
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Jan 4, 2008 3:36 PM CST So...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
when i starting looking for what i don't have in my wardrobe just to look special for himgiggle

I have no problems in saying "i love you"...if he is scared, it's his problem, i keep my feelings, my love and makes me beautiful and him uglyrolling on the floor laughing ...well, yeah, love is to be assumed, why run?where you going running?It makes no sense to me!

wine
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Jan 4, 2008 3:46 PM CST So...
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Even though my profile says other wise, Yup grin
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Jan 4, 2008 3:49 PM CST So...
firstllight
firstllightfirstllightStrasburg, Virginia USA6 Threads 1 Polls 815 Posts
I keep it bottled inside...forever.
It's still there, waiting to be uncorked.
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Jan 4, 2008 3:56 PM CST So...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
But you 'want' to be uncorked...right?wine
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Jan 4, 2008 3:58 PM CST So...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
I'm saving myself for someone who says "take you pants off."


blushing
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Jan 4, 2008 4:00 PM CST So...
Hey Al



















Take your pants off!
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Jan 4, 2008 4:01 PM CST So...
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA36 Threads 3 Polls 4,493 Posts
I tried following my heart.
Now I think we're going to sit back & take a vacation.
I have a good bottle of brandy & I know how to use it.


laugh
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Jan 4, 2008 4:02 PM CST So...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing .. but wrong ... you'll notice it says "take YOU pants off"

spelling mistakes turn me off rolling on the floor laughing




dunno grin mumbling
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Jan 4, 2008 4:03 PM CST So...
tongue

Forget it then! It is over between us!

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 4, 2008 4:03 PM CST So...
wendywindy
wendywindywendywindyOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA10 Threads 187 Posts
My mind doesn't have much reign over my heart.

But I am trying really hard to let my mind rule!!!
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Jan 4, 2008 4:04 PM CST So...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
laugh


thumbs up




hug
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Jan 4, 2008 4:05 PM CST So...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
The one is made by a story...don't you think?

lets give examples...how many times you thought a girl was very good in bed she ended up being sothumbs down, how many times you had fantasies, none were proved sustainable?
How many times you (i) had beautiful stories on the internet for a while and you (i) thought he was the perfect one?

So, answering to this thread and the other linked to this one, unfortunately you never really know if the person is THE ONE if you don't try. That's why i defend that we should stop looking for that superlative love because what makes it superlative needs your work as well!
You gotta have same principles, laugh, enjoying being together(chatting, talking), that is possible to feel towards a few.If you do feel comfortable with that one, what perfection are you looking for then?

cheers
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Jan 4, 2008 4:05 PM CST So...
DUBGUY73
DUBGUY73DUBGUY73Dublin, Ireland3 Threads 201 Posts
Me too. I used to give my heart too easily but experience has taught me to take things very slow in future. Diving right in usually leads to heartache IMO.
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Jan 4, 2008 4:06 PM CST So...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
ok in this thread only though ... theres something about lumps we have to figure out before we end this ... being I likes to work things out before we part ya know...

rolling on the floor laughing
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