Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE? ( Archived) (55)

Jan 7, 2008 10:28 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
shallyjean1
shallyjean1shallyjean1Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada6 Threads 1 Polls 53 Posts
How many of you have wondered, "WHAT IF I WOULD HAVE TAKEN A CHANCE ON HIM/ HER?"


Did your best friend end up with the best person and you could have had a chance?

Were you to wrapped up in a social life?

Were you too shy?


What if.... I have been walking past and ignoring all the people that possibly could have been made for me?

I have felt no sparks, but what if....... Is this you too?

moping moping moping
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:32 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
I have a happily married friend that I dated over 30 years ago, and yes I wonder sometimes.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:33 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
No. If you're open to the right person - if you know what you want - I think you'll recognize him or her when you meet them.wave applause
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:36 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
When that has happened to me it's been cause I was with someone else at the time and didn't want to leave them for someoneelse.
I guess we all have a few what ifs.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:38 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
But sometimes one may be too afraid to take the chance.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:39 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
I resemble that remark.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:41 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
Especially when kids are involved,when ur on ur own it's not so bad.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:42 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA36 Threads 3 Polls 4,493 Posts
If they let you walk past, they're not the right one.
The right one would hook you & never let you go.

The wrong ones never get that far.

wink
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:43 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
thumbs up wine applause

What she said. laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:44 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
thumbs up Well said....wink hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:44 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
Does it work that way for both sides?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:44 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
Sadly sometimes they dosigh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:44 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
yes, there are two things

1. I met a wonderful lady on CS but she lived far away and I wasn't willing to take a chance with the distance thing. She is now happy with someone else.

2. Angelina Jolie missed HER chance to marry me!!tongue
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:45 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
tunnelwary
tunnelwarytunnelwaryLa Jolla, California USA30 Threads 601 Posts
that consistent smile and nod at the grocery store

that "friend" that you share updated personal sagas with

a friend's ex that you deem "untouchable" even if your friend is alright with it

the SILLY THOUGHT that someone is "out of your league"



Yah...I've wondered
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:47 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Shyness has definitely been an enemy to my "dating" life ........ been too shy to let people know I'm interested in them ....... insecurities as well have stopped me .................... hopefully I'm getting past this as I age - but I still admit to battling it at moments.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:50 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Ditto, Ditto, Ditto, Ditto, Ditto, Ditto, Ditto, Ditto.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 10:56 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA41 Threads 12 Polls 1,317 Posts
It’s my opinion that each of us has a different personality, and no matter how much alike you think you are, just because someone is perfect with another person doesn’t mean they would be perfect with you. I have known people who think someone is perfect or they want what two people have, so they do everything they can to break them up. After the dirty deed is done if they even end up with the one they thought they wanted it usually doesn’t work out because the personalities just didnt mesh as well.
I think if your open to the thought of finding a soul mate you wont pass them up, everything about you pushes you to find the one, your brain and laziness mess it all up, because you settle with people that you know from the beginning aren’t the one you were looking for.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 11:10 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
shallyjean1
shallyjean1shallyjean1Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada6 Threads 1 Polls 53 Posts
Yea, me 2 moping moping moping
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 11:11 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
applause Well said.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 7, 2008 11:14 PM CST Is it possible.. to over-look THE ONE?
tunnelwary
tunnelwarytunnelwaryLa Jolla, California USA30 Threads 601 Posts
confused don't think I've ever gone walking in Winnipeg
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Stats for this Thread

1,920 Views
54 Comments
by shallyjean1 (6 Threads)
in Advice
Created: Jan 2008
Last Viewed: Apr 14
Last Commented: Feb 2008

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here