When that has happened to me it's been cause I was with someone else at the time and didn't want to leave them for someoneelse. I guess we all have a few what ifs.
1. I met a wonderful lady on CS but she lived far away and I wasn't willing to take a chance with the distance thing. She is now happy with someone else.
Shyness has definitely been an enemy to my "dating" life ........ been too shy to let people know I'm interested in them ....... insecurities as well have stopped me .................... hopefully I'm getting past this as I age - but I still admit to battling it at moments.
It’s my opinion that each of us has a different personality, and no matter how much alike you think you are, just because someone is perfect with another person doesn’t mean they would be perfect with you. I have known people who think someone is perfect or they want what two people have, so they do everything they can to break them up. After the dirty deed is done if they even end up with the one they thought they wanted it usually doesn’t work out because the personalities just didnt mesh as well. I think if your open to the thought of finding a soul mate you wont pass them up, everything about you pushes you to find the one, your brain and laziness mess it all up, because you settle with people that you know from the beginning aren’t the one you were looking for.
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Did your best friend end up with the best person and you could have had a chance?
Were you to wrapped up in a social life?
Were you too shy?
What if.... I have been walking past and ignoring all the people that possibly could have been made for me?
I have felt no sparks, but what if....... Is this you too?