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Apr 7, 2006 7:07 PM CST first meeting
PaleEyes
PaleEyesPaleEyesLawrenceburg, USA7 Threads 176 Posts
Why do men (and women too) talk to someone for a month, meet and don't even have the respect to leave an email that they aren't interested? Don't you think its better to be up front and not leave the other person hanging?
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Apr 7, 2006 7:18 PM CST first meeting
doug_344
doug_344doug_344grand rapids, Michigan USA33 Threads 365 Posts
im with ya on that one!!
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Apr 7, 2006 7:45 PM CST first meeting
Raynew
RaynewRaynewConcord, North Carolina USA99 Threads 2,400 Posts
I was talking to someone like that once, email and phone. After about a month, no more replies to my emails and she would hang up the phone when I called. No explanation, no nothing. I was nothing but polite with her.
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Apr 7, 2006 7:54 PM CST first meeting
Leviathan
LeviathanLeviathanHamilton, Ontario, Ontario Canada8 Threads 675 Posts
Some things just die a natural death and no explanation is needed...I don't always epxlain when the decision is mutual but unspoken. But if there is any confusion, then it is only honourable to explain yourself...though some still say nothing to avoid confrontation or feelings of guilt.
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Apr 7, 2006 8:00 PM CST first meeting
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
I think that is plain disrespectful! I would never leave a person hanging whatsoever! That is just not me.

I had met someone through here a few months ago. Met him in person once for coffee and realized he was not my type at all and I was honest and told him.

Tracy
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Apr 7, 2006 8:02 PM CST first meeting
Leviathan
LeviathanLeviathanHamilton, Ontario, Ontario Canada8 Threads 675 Posts
You are one of the good ones...and thanks for setting me straight after our coffee, hun! Hehehehehe...
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Apr 7, 2006 8:03 PM CST first meeting
PaleEyes
PaleEyesPaleEyesLawrenceburg, USA7 Threads 176 Posts
This just happened to my friend. I just don't understand why he told her he would take her out the next week and then she hears nothing after that. Just boggles my mind. Just wondered what everyone thought about that. Sorry that happened to you.
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Apr 7, 2006 8:06 PM CST first meeting
Leviathan
LeviathanLeviathanHamilton, Ontario, Ontario Canada8 Threads 675 Posts
Because he's an idiot...plain and simple.
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Apr 7, 2006 8:59 PM CST first meeting
MacinMN
MacinMNMacinMNLong Lake, Minnesota USA4 Threads 31 Posts
Being the perpetual optimist...perhaps the guy just got busy...or something happened...I've had people email me from CS...and all of a sudden they drop off the face of the earth...I wonder what I said (or typed as the case may be) and several days later...out of the blue..they are back. So I'd give the guy the benefit of the doubt...send a message thanking him for the evening...and if your friend really enjoyed the evening out...tell him that..and ask what you did wrong..life's a learning experience after all...

I agree though...I think he should have the honor and courage to at least communicate what's up...
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Apr 7, 2006 9:36 PM CST first meeting
gon2playgolf
gon2playgolfgon2playgolfbaytown, USA29 Posts
I think you should always tell someone if you are interested. Thats why people come here aint it?
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Apr 7, 2006 9:44 PM CST first meeting
PaleEyes
PaleEyesPaleEyesLawrenceburg, USA7 Threads 176 Posts
yep thats what I told her. Told her she needs to forget it and chalk it up as wasted time on a loser.
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Apr 7, 2006 9:49 PM CST first meeting
PaleEyes
PaleEyesPaleEyesLawrenceburg, USA7 Threads 176 Posts
Thats what i thought too. But I think theres some game playing going on by some on all the sites. I knew one guy that was on 8 different sites, and going out with women on all the sites. So he was probably a game player to begin with.
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Apr 23, 2006 10:53 PM CST first meeting
Lourdes
LourdesLourdesOrlando, Florida USA5 Posts
I strongly believe this is all an illusion, people here are fake. I also believe u cannot find real love here because men and also women enter this site just to laugh a .little. So girls don't take it serious.
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Apr 24, 2006 1:41 AM CST first meeting
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
when you first meet someone,you should know if it is going to work out or not.if you have took that long of time talking to them before you met them

why didn't you ask them before you want them where do they want it to go,why didn't you just ask them before you met them,what they honestly think of you and where they wanted it to go.
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Apr 24, 2006 1:30 PM CST first meeting
inkedbabe
inkedbabeinkedbabeHamilton, Canada2 Threads 62 Posts
Because people are rude and dumb...and if you met someone like that and that happened aren't you glad you didnt waste your time with a fool like that?
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