Why do men (and women too) talk to someone for a month, meet and don't even have the respect to leave an email that they aren't interested? Don't you think its better to be up front and not leave the other person hanging?
I was talking to someone like that once, email and phone. After about a month, no more replies to my emails and she would hang up the phone when I called. No explanation, no nothing. I was nothing but polite with her.
Some things just die a natural death and no explanation is needed...I don't always epxlain when the decision is mutual but unspoken. But if there is any confusion, then it is only honourable to explain yourself...though some still say nothing to avoid confrontation or feelings of guilt.
I think that is plain disrespectful! I would never leave a person hanging whatsoever! That is just not me.
I had met someone through here a few months ago. Met him in person once for coffee and realized he was not my type at all and I was honest and told him.
This just happened to my friend. I just don't understand why he told her he would take her out the next week and then she hears nothing after that. Just boggles my mind. Just wondered what everyone thought about that. Sorry that happened to you.
Being the perpetual optimist...perhaps the guy just got busy...or something happened...I've had people email me from CS...and all of a sudden they drop off the face of the earth...I wonder what I said (or typed as the case may be) and several days later...out of the blue..they are back. So I'd give the guy the benefit of the doubt...send a message thanking him for the evening...and if your friend really enjoyed the evening out...tell him that..and ask what you did wrong..life's a learning experience after all...
I agree though...I think he should have the honor and courage to at least communicate what's up...
Thats what i thought too. But I think theres some game playing going on by some on all the sites. I knew one guy that was on 8 different sites, and going out with women on all the sites. So he was probably a game player to begin with.
I strongly believe this is all an illusion, people here are fake. I also believe u cannot find real love here because men and also women enter this site just to laugh a .little. So girls don't take it serious.
when you first meet someone,you should know if it is going to work out or not.if you have took that long of time talking to them before you met them
why didn't you ask them before you want them where do they want it to go,why didn't you just ask them before you met them,what they honestly think of you and where they wanted it to go.
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