I just did something tonight that was the hardest thing for me to do. I will not go into details but I am crying so hard right now and I feel like such a horrible person and mother.
NO the baby and my son are great. No worries about them.
Sorry if I am not making sense. I just feel really alone right now :*o(
sorry to hear that. We all do things and have things done to us, but you know what, God forgives and people do too, so whatever it is , maybe it was for a reason, but sorry, and if you need to talk it out, het I'm here pardner.
I remember getting like that too after I had my kids. You have to figure all those hormones trying to get normal again. Your body is going through changes from having a baby in you to not anymore. Plus the news about your mother, so it is very understandable. Just try to get your rest and take care. I am sure there are alot of women who can relate.
Being a Mom is tough no matter when you had the kids. I know and yes no matter how great you are there are going to be times that you'll say or do something that you regret instantly. I know because I have been there to. The key to all this is that you have regret which teaches you for the next time something happens.
Hang in there being a Mom is hard but doing it on your own is harder. There are many of us here for you. Hang in there and if you ever want to talk, I'm here for you.
Tracy, hope you are feeling better today. I can relate, I have raised two sons by myself. And I did much I regret now especially in relationships I had just to survive, not for food, but for shoes ect. for my sons. I did what I had to do, and what I thought was the best for them at the time. I love them so much and the past fourteen years have been a rough road. Believe me when I tell you, this to shall pass. Just always be there for them and love them. After all they are an extension of you. Things will get better. Who would have ever thought I would end up going to college? If you had told be that back then I would have said "yea right in your dreams" Take care
Tracy, Women, and Mothers especially, do what they have to do. Not always easy stuff. I'm certain anything you did was either with the best of intentions or for survival.
No regrets. Ever.
Today's a new day, don't look back over your shoulder.
all I can say, is some things are hard. But, we do what we can... You are in a vulnerable space now, too. As well as what lene mentioned. May not see it now, but the world is still bright, hon.
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NO the baby and my son are great. No worries about them.
Sorry if I am not making sense. I just feel really alone right now :*o(